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hi everyone how are you goin? what are your plans for easter? I'm working so im not going anywhere.
As for me doing ivf dearmum im not sure hopefully the gyno i see on the 23rd will be able to give me some answers i cant see why not the doc said everything is fine just my ovaries are out further then there meant to be and the right one is larger so hopefully we will still be able to do it.
Have a good easter everyone.
ang
Hi Ladies....Hope your all enjoying your long weekend and end of school holidays YEEHAH i know i am already hehe.Anyone going away for easter? well i was thinking about it but the more i think the lazier im getting....lol,we are VERY last minute people so will see what happens.
Ladies i will be 8 weeks on Monday yeh it sure is dragging out hey.I was thinking i might post a belly shot each month so you can see me gettn huge hehe,what do ya all reckon?
Hi Mumof6.....Nah im not on the lounge im back to normal now and enjoying it hehe.
Im still on Pessaries and when i had that scare i used extra just to be sure i wont m/c but im going to stop the pessaries once im 12 weeks.Yayyy i have another scan at 9 weeks so thats next Friday cant wait to see if there still alive and if theres still 2 in there.Babe with 4 frozen that should give you a good chance at having another one,will you be transfering 2 on your first attempt?i had natural FETs.I think its better coz if one doesnt work you can straight away go onto another cycle,and you cant stuff up your system coz your not using any drugs.
Hi Kiya.....Oooh thats a real worry for your son hey,i would be so scared if it was my son.Its just so sad when things like this happen to such young kids hey.Just take it step by step thats all you can do HUGSSSS.Babe you can still have babies into your 40s so dont worry whats more important is getting the ones you have healthy first.
Babe how that B***arch has she left you guys alone now?
Hi Katt....No i think everything will work out just fine,so it looks like a 2010 baby coming your way huh,hmmm maybe you and Mumof6 will get pregnant around the same time.
Hi Mrzbaby....Oh so glad to hear your moving on i hope the clomid does the trick for you hey.Its good to hear you will attempt IVF coz it saves alot of time and with your history of having kids it should work first pop for ya.Wow there could be 4 of us pregnant this yr!
How is everyone else?
Hi Everyone,
Well saw my Doc yesterday and he is hopefully going to think along the same lines as me and that is 2 cycles of clomid 50mg and then onto IVF.
DH and I are thinking to go with Westmead. I have looked into it and it seems a lot cheaper ( we have spent a huge amount on the tubal reversal and now to have to go down the IVF road when we could have done that first so the cost aspect is certainly something we need to look at.)
I am still nervous about the ectopic preg as Clomid increase the risk and so does the TR , especially since it is approaching 1 yr anniversary mark and the scarring (if any) would most likely be building up by now. I just want a take home forever baby...... you know healthy mum, healthy bub.... not much really is it??
Have a great easter everyone...
Dearmum I am just so excited for you...I have god twins and they are just beautiful... actually i am going to go over now have a huge hug with them and a chat with my BF...
EM....
Hey Dearmum....it is funny how you mentioned about the scrag-a-muffin, as she has started again, but now her stories are getting so over the top that we now have her friends emailing us, telling us how sorry they were for believing in her and her make believe stories....scoreboard 1 to us and 0 to her.....lol she is now saying that my stepdaughter is now engaged (dh's daughter).....she is only 16 and now she is apparently heading off overseas with him.....long story about the heading overseas, but to cut a long story short, scraggle-puss because she herself has only just become an aussie and she is married to a guy from NZ needs to have my dh sign her passport, and she hasn't done so.....both CSA and Passport Office have told us to seek legal advice because as they said, scraggle-puss needs to have my dh's permission to allow the daughter to leave the country and she didn't obtain it and had her dh sign the passport which makes it illegal.....i have always said "karma is a biarch", so now she is about to come face to face with "karma".....LOL.....cheers kiya
Kiya.... no thats not true about the passport and DH needing to sign. If you go to the post office there is an extra form you fill out if the father is uncontactable. Its called a form B9 Child without full parent consent form. It just takes abit longer to get the passport approved thats all(been there done that). So they don't need to contact your DH at all. I think its all just another excuse to screw with your lives if you ask me. Take it easy darl.
Dearmum.... I dont know anything about pessaries and 12weeks that seems so long. I was on crinone after my transfer with Breah but it only went for 15 days twice a day. We will be transfering 2 on the first go if they let us:rolleyes:. I'll be waiting online all day next friday,make sure they give you a picture this time so we can all see these bubbas. Have you done any shopping yet??? Belly shot once a month sounds good to me. We will have to get you a shirt to wear (WIDE LOAD COMING THRU) HEHEHEHE. So looking forward to sharing this with you! xxx
We went into sydney this morning to the big sydney fish market. We are having a big cook up tonight prawns squid, scollops, muscels:sick:,fish, calamari. Cost a packet but oh well, i can't wait.
Thanks Mumof6.....yeah this biarch is not letting up now......she is sending us nasty emails because my dh wont acknowledge the daughters engagement......they were hinting at us that we are to help fork out for this so called engagement party and wedding....this is the same person who is abusing us and telling us all because we wont bow down to her wishes and demands that we can't see the chid, but now we have to pay for her engagement and wedding....i don;t think so....she gets enough from my dh as it is $100pw for CSA payments......kiya
hi kiya, mumofsix, dearmum and everyone else, how is your easter going?
Mine was work yesterday atleast it was doubletime and a half as for that house work still trying to get the house organised but with all the kids running around and getting into everything it makes it double the work.
dearmum, hopefully it will be a 2010 baby for us im hoping anyway and my gyno appointment isnt that far away just over a week now so hopefully he will have good news providing all goes well we should be going to start ivf in july. it seems everyone is pregnant at the moment ive got two friends and my sis in law is starting to try for baby number 2 nxt month so im gonna be surrounded by babies just gotta hope now that i can have another one.
hope all is well with everyone.
ang
HAPPY EASTER TO MY CHOCOHOLIC GALS
Well yesterday I finished my day 5 of Clomid so its belly dancing from here on in!!!.
Got the damn hot flushes today arrgh!!!!. Haven't had to many side effects from it a bit emotional but it could be that everyone is gearing up for my cousins baby arrival....
Dear mum..... How are the twins liking chocolate???? monthly belly shots or weekly sound great.Keep taking it easy hun...
KIya......Wow your biarch could almost double as my DH ex........ I have actually put my foot down this time and said I don't want to see hear or talk about his kids until after we are Preg and it is born .....Not that we get to see them anyhow ( every 2 yrs if we are lucky) as we have to beg and pay bribe money for trips to the airport, packing clothes etc ( at an hourly rate!!!) I told DH if we were paying here that then I would put on on the business books and at least claim here wages back as a tax deduction!!!) I also told DH that packing your kids clothes and making sure they got to the airport safe was what any self respecting mother would do and not have to ask for money for it.
I feel like abtch but my Step kids came up end of Jan and I was so stressed out and upset as a huge family crap went down and the kids weren't allowed to stay with us, so she could have the grandparetns side with her and not their son!!!etc ... whole other story.
Then a week and ahlf after they left our baby died and I just don't want or need that stress with this bub to be......
Anyhow after all that I need more chocolate...:lol:
Love and hugs to all......
EM
HI Everyone Im Back!!!!
I am still a mum to 5 and but starting ivf really soon...
My baby is almost 5 years old now and now is the time i think... plus I have my partner on my side now.
How is everyone???
KIya Great to see you still in here as also mumofsix (breah has grown so much!!!)
hello to everyone else I have missed...
welcome back mummy25.....great to see you back here and starting your IVF journey soon....cheers kiya
I have been very quiet Havent I ???
Thankyou for the welcome back Kiya its good to be back...
Mumofsix going for number 7??? WOW.....
good to see so many regulars still in here...
oh for sure darl.....so how have you been.....look forward to catching up with everything you have been up to....tell me everything...hehehe.....cheers kiya
Mummy25... how funny i was only thinking about you today.
Was going to going looking for you tonite when i had a chance to see if you had been posting anywhere else.
So happy to hear from you
HI mumofsix!!!
Kiya,
I have been busy with my 5 children they keep you running around that is for sure.
my son aged 7 finally has an appointment to see if he has adhd as he is on the go full time...
my daughter aged 4 os off to kindergarten next year and my eldest off to year 10 next year.
we have been pretty busy with family problems my nephew a christian and regular church attender aged 17 abused my youngest daughter while her mum babysat one day for me and I went off over that big time.
he is in jail and told the police everything and now I have to wait for his sentence as he was charged with 13 counts he told police he had got to our other children too but we are not allowed to ask them so we wait till after court and they will tell us.
17 and his life is over its sad but as a mum of the victim I really hope he stays in there.
anyway that was months ago and our family has councelling and its going well but we no longer get babysitters anymore our trust is gone.
you never know anyone like you think you do.
I had to put ivf off at that stage as we could not cope with what had happined but now the dust has settled its time to get back and try for a 2010 baby.
how have you been???
Hi Ladies;)Gosh gone for a couple of days and look theres heaps to catch up on hehe.
Well we had a rather boring long weekend didnt go away or anything just had a relaxing few days at home doing NOTHING hehe but it was the best.
Hi Mumof6.....Yeh pessaries are almost the same as crinone but its a wax form instead,i have been told to stop after 9 weeks but something keeps telling me its best to stop at 12 weeks.Hehe did you enjoy all the seafood?did ya have like a BBQ.
I hope your allowed to transfer 2 just dont seetle for less.
Hi Kiya.....Oh dear its been going on for years now hey i really hope the doc can help your son,coz its not fair on him.Hmmm that Biarch is still B****Y pushing it isnt she.Your alot more stronger than me i know i would have put a bullet in her head if it was me.
Yeh when im bad im very bad hehe.
Hi Mrzbaby.....Hehe nah im turned off chocolate for now and yeh im ****ed about that coz next time when im in the mood the eggs will be gone GRRRR.
I hope your havn fun with all the BDing hehe.I bet hubbys not complaining.
Hi Mummy25....Wow you have been through hell :hug:i wish i was there i would give your DD a BIG hug.
Good news your doing IVF soon,i cant wait to hear how your all going to go in your cycle.
Ladies im having trouble posting my photobucket here any ideas?
Just sticking my head in to let you all know I am still alive....
been so busy lately, & trying to fight the girls for the pc, *sigh* I need to get the other one up & running.
Catch up soon!!
Mummy25...god darl you and your family has been thru the mill. Im so so sorry your kids had to go thru this terrible ordeal, its truely a sad thing. Im glad you's are on top of things now. I don't let people look after my kids either cause noone can't look after them as good as you can. Then if something happens you only have yourself to blame that way. Now you can put all your effort into IVF.
Dearmum...Yeah we had a family BBQ and it was yumo. Is it ok and safe to stay on it that long???? My only tips on posting a pic is to go to the main f.orum page and down a couple of things it says gallary help and tips. Click on that and it will take you to the gallary and you can post it in there then copy and paste.
Storm i know the feeling about the pc. We have the main computer in my room. So we went and got a wireless router thing for 49 dollar and a laptop so we have that in the kitchen. So the kids go in my room and i have the laptop handy all the time.
We had a quiet weekend to. Not much going on here. I went and got a new pram today cause my 3 year old DS is lazy and always stands on the front of the pram then i can't stear it to good. So i got a phil and ted one and its awesome
We spent our Easter having some very much needed rain. I will always say it and will continue to say it (Emm you may know of this) we had to order a water delivery in (i live int he country -whoop whoop and i don't have town water but tanks) and whenever i order water in within either 12 - 24 hours we get rain and it has been raining ever since getting this damn water delivery. It is good however because it is making my property nice and green for my horse. Just wish the horse would stop trying to break down my back door so he can get inside from the rain.....LOL cheers kiya
THankyou mumofsix and dearmum things are better now and we look forward to moving on not hiding in the past...
dearmum your having twins???
last time I was here you were pregnant am I correct? what happined???
mumofsix yes no one can look after them ike their mum can and wow breah is so big now she was a wee bubba last time I was here...
how everything changes...
Kiya it would be good to live in the country I think (apart from the water orders and the snakes who would roam close to home)...
I live in a suburb and dont have much land space...
I went nuts on birds through all of this and started collecting hand reared birds I have like 4 now and so far I have spent on them enough to have ivf 3 times!!!
Its funny how we find things to distract our minds if only the birds were not quite so noisy!!
Its not that bad really when it comes to the water. We can go up to 6 months without having to get water especially if we keep getting the rain every now and then. Just after yesterday all my water tanks are now overflowing. For the snakes, they have learned that if the enter my property they will get either stomped on by my horse or one of collies will go chasing them and kill them or the babies will become cat bait. We trained our dogs from puppies to be raters, mousers and snakers. So they catch the snake half kill it and then i finish it with the shovel.....LOL I have been here for nearly 6 years and i have not yet lost and animal to a snake bite, but my neighbour on the other hand lost 2 expensive competition warmblood horses, many kittens and cats and several dogs....cheers kiya
Mummy25.... yes she sure has grown up. She will be one on the 1st May:(.
My 10 year old DS also has ADHD. Thank turned our family on its head from the time he was about 15mths old till he seen a specialist when he was 5. He seen doctors after doctor for special tests then finally they decided to medicate him. He was on dex first then ridlin.They have to many highs and lows, one minute there like a bl00dy zombie witch upset me so much and then the next he was coming down and was his normal self. So he's now on concerta ED36mgs 1 tablet a day. Its awesome. He eats more he grows more and his behaviour stays at one level all day, no highs no lows but right in the middle witch is great.
Dearmum... come on FRIDAY:pray: im so excited....
2wks till my fs appointment. Im getting nervous!!
My 14 yo DD also had ADHD. She is un medicated now but somedays MAN I regret that decision.
Oh Storm you poor thing. We did try the hole natural diet natural medication thing once we knew what he had. It did work after about 6 weeks of being on it but its wasn't a long term fix. Effelex effelum from the health food shop it is great. In the end we had to go for the drugs for his sake. Its just so unfair on him cause its not his fault it is a disabilty.
I never tried health food remedies Wish I had though, she has been the cause of so much grief lately. I hadn't seen her since wed, so sun I ended up calling the police, they had her within 10mins & drove her all the way out here for me. Sometimes she is just off the planet other times she is just beautiful. It is so hard to deal with, especially at this age.
We did have her on meds to begin with, but some days she would just zone out & I didn't like that.
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Yayyy here is my 8 week twin belly shot!
Had heaps of trouble getting it here :p
Thats so sad Storm and im so glad she is home now. The meds my son is on now doesnt zone him out like the other did. He would zone out so much that he would sit there and write me a story or lay there twirling his hair and thats not my son at all. So the concerta that he's on now is a blessing cause he's not extra good or extra bad he's just a normal kid.
Dearmum... you so need to get fat already hehehe. Wats the go with your ticker? Maybe you she change it to show how many week you are
arrgh... i have had so much trouble trying to log on!!!!!!
katt, hi i tried to let you know my story ages ago but the stupid system wouldn't let me on. i had my reversal not just because of wanting another child, but for extreme pain and heavy bleeding... after the reversal and nearly three years later, I have had 4 ectopics. thank god they haven't exploded in the tubes and not had to have surgery (except for the first one) they just go away themselves... i am hoping to head down the ivf road too
kiya, your poor thing.. she needs a real wake up call to leave you and your family alone... how long before you head for ivf?
storm, noah looks so cute... i also had to buy another 2 computers because of the fighting for computer time in my house... cost me a fortune but there is a little more peace when they all have assignments due or just want to go surfin....
mummy 25, sorry to hear about your ordeal. I fully understand... these kind of things are not just limited to any kind- christian or not... its always a real shock though if it comes from a so called "christian".
dearmum, so glad to hear that your bleeding is stopping... i see your beautiful belly growing.. i can't wait to see how big and beautiful you get! i am so waiting for the next ultrasound. keep resting..... it will be well worth it... do you read much?
mumofsix, keep pacing yourself... i really understand that whole analysis thing... we do sometimes. what does your heart tell you?
My 7yr old son has adhd non medicated but we are waiting on the doctor appointment for medication as I cant control him...
he is on the go 24/7 hypo from the minute he wakes until he is asleep.
he demands your attention and I find it hard to concentrate on the other children as Im always trying to settle him down.
(he also has development delays and speech and hearing problems which make communication hard also)..
Im the same I dont want to medicate him but I have too or Ill go completly insane...
Im hoping they put him on the med's your son is on mumofsix as I have heard bad things about the other.
He is so tiny so I would prefer him to be on a medication where he wont not eat as he cant afford to loose any weight there just isnt enough of him.
he attends councelling for his problem but it does not calm him.
dearmum that is a beautiful double bubba belly there....
storm....so sorry to hear that you are having a rough time with your dd.....i can so totally relate to it all. my 18 ds is adhd and it took us many years for us to have someone tell us.....we were then able to have him on drugs, but they seemed to be doing more damage than good.....we also ended up going natural just like mumof6 and he was also on effalex....we now have him back on natural meds especially after recent events with him.....long story that i will tell another day.....i was however blown away when i went to get him some more the price they are....so the chemist actually recommended another brand which was just under $20 and contained exactly the same ingredients but more of it and so he only needs to have 1 tab 3 times a day....
hope everythign works out soon for you.....
to everyone else, hiya how you all going ?? i haven't forget you all :-)
heres hoping that i have a day of respite from snaggle-pu$$ (dh ex)
cheers kiya
hi luvchildren how are you?, hi everyone else how are you all going?
luvchildren, thanks for letting me know. sorry to hear that you had so many problems with your reversal. i dunno which way im going yet i see the gyno next week but im more then likely going ivf which i hopefully will be starting in july im starting to save for it since ive gotta pay for it all since im not privately insured i think i need more hours at work lol
take care everyone talk soon
ang
LUV...My heart tell me stuff it just do it.....
Mummy25..... Good luck with your DS at the specialist. I hope he finds some peace soon the poor little man.
Hi again,
I had Westmead IVF send me their package and my partner and I have decided we are definitely going to go thru with ivf rather than a tubal reversal. Problem is we have a cruise booked for 29 November, so we have to wait until we get back from the cruise until we can start (I don't want to be so far away from medical help if I need it).
So I am on my countdown to the cruise and then for my IVF - omg!!! I am going to have more kids!!!! I never thought this would happen, my ex-husband was so adamant that we would not have more and my current partner is so wonderful!
I have decided to lose some weight before IVF as I am overweight, apart from this, does anybody have any suggestions of things I can do to prepare my body for IVF, vitamins etc?
dearmum - loved the pic - i am so clucky!!!
mumofsix - thanks for your reply, I have kept your number and will probably give you a call as it gets a bit closer!!!
I am so excited.
Startingover...Im trying to lose weight to. The only other thing would be Blackmores pregnancy& breastfeeding Gold Vitamins which is the one the clinic recommend. Ive just started back on mine and they say to start up to 3mths before hand.
Morning ladies.....
Well today is my DDs birthday she turned 18:crying:once my little princess now someone elses,ahhh i cant handle them growing up.We are off to have a nice dinner tonight at our Casino as there is a nice all you can eat place and the food is GOOD.
Anyway ladies i have been a real biarch to my family lately i mean just snapping at everything and taking everything to heart what they say or dont say ahhh i guess its the hormones going wild,i feel so lonely ATM coz im not getting any attenion from my DH and i feel like whenever he wants something in bed im just used :redface:i mean how would you all feel having your hubby come to bed at 2am each night and only when he wants something one a week he comes to bed when im going GRRRR i have told myself stuff him next time im saying "NO" ok enough about that its getting embarrasing hehe.
Guys its my scan day tommorro i cant wait.....im so scared that there only going to find one bub i even have sweaty hands just typing it,If i can get past 20 weeks i might be able to relax and enjoy this pregnancy but because i lost Shaheed at that age im still very scared of what could be.
Sorry no personals i will pop in tommorro ok XX
Oh Dearmum....you poor thing.....you are doing OK, it is just like you say your hormones going loopy.....it will all settle down soon and you will back to being your usual bubbly self. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your dd.....have a great time at the Casino.......best of luck tomorrow...can't wait to hear all about it.....hugs hun.....cheers kiya
good luck dearmum for your scan fingers crossed for your twins....
Talking about loosing weight (which I need myself I have gained 15 kgs in a year Im 76kgs now) does anyone watch biggest looser couples on tv???
Im hooked what a show, The 4 who are left are the one's who tried the least and only got to the end via there alliance...
now they have brought back the eliminated contestants and its game on...
never really got into the show until I gained weight...
mind you I gained it after I had my TL I just blew up like a balloon...
Mummy25... Im hooked to i love it. if Meegan get back in im NOT watching NO more. Cant believe they way they have played the game this time round.
I have heaps of weight to lose,its bloody terrible i have gained 13kg since having Breah and i already had a heap to lose:(. Its been a battle all my life up down up down:rolleyes:. So over it!
Dearmum HAPPY BIG 18TH BIRTHDAY DD. So tomorrows the big day i so can't wait:pray:.
mumofsix: TOTALLY AGREE on megan what a b###H she ruined the show and her aliance lost all those who actually put in the effort.
did you see cameron cry that they didnt get prizes but the returning contestants did and then the final 4 were given a prize (amazon) he he he ...
The sisters holly and mel quit again...
I was always 60kg but since my TL I have struggled with my weight and Im not big on excersise I asked the dh for a treadmil and he told me to just walk the dog instead OUch....
The only time I have been this weight was when I was pregnant with my first and I returned to 60kg within a few weeks same with my other children lost the weight quickly my ds aged 7 I was in my pre pregancy jeans the next day..
my children were 7'9, 6'10, 7'4, 6'14 and 5'4 pounds... This time I want a 9pounder but i dont like my chances...
I never had the big belly like most only a basket ball tummy so it would be nice to have a huge tummy for once...
I hope they will put two In with ivf thats what I will be asking for.
my children x 3 are not going to sleep so I best go and sort them out you would think they would be quiet and not let me hear them playing games at 10.29pm silly them their fun is over lol....