Tubal Reversals #8

O M G Kiya wtf? You poor poor thing, who was the doctor? What an a hole!!

kiya that's crap as storm said who did you see? i cannot believe they said that to you. and who does he think he is telling you that you don''t need anymore children what a jerk.

Hi Storm...it was the same dr dea saw here in qld.....then while he was saying all of this, he lounge back in his chair so matter of factly as if it was nothing, while i sat there holding back the tears......it was nightmarish....kiya

hubby sat quietly in the car the whole way home, just holding my hand....he took me out in the back yard and just let me cry on him....it has also effected him, because he is also so wanting to have another baby.....my eldest daughter 11yrs, also came home went into her room and slamned the door.....she is also wanting a new baby brother or sister....so really it has effected the whole family....kiya

that is what he said to me i would have had to lose a child and everything else. and he asked me how many kids i had & i told him i had four and why i wanted to have another baby and i told him i remarried and i wanted to give my husband another baby as he only has one from a previous relationship. he said nothing to me about having enough children. all i can say to you and your family kiya is i'm sorry.

dea.....thank-you for everything (in a good way).....you have been great along this journey......yes it is sad that it didn't happen the way we wanted it to happen, but like dh just said.....things happen for a reason, and that he feels deep in his heart, that something is going to happen, and we will find a way of having another baby......he is also wanting me to look into ivf, so this way we can cover all bases so to speak.....we will still keep our options of a tr, but we are not probably also going to look into the ivf route as well :-) cheers kiya

I would go & see another tr dr, or is he the only one for the public system?
he has no right to deny you because he "thinks" you have enough children.
Can you complain to someone? Gosh it just doesn't sound right.

he was the only dr doing it pubicly in qld that i know of......we tried all the hospitals both in brisbane and out of brisbane.......i didn't even get a chance to plead my case so to speak.....i agree, a dr does not have the right to say whether you do or don't have enough children....last time i checked i though it was the husband/partner & wife/partner who made that decision since they are making the baby....cheers kiya

Hi kiya.....
Im sorry for what has happened to you today and for the do.SORRY THE BABY DID SOMETHING AND STUFFED IT ALL UP!!!

Hi kiya.....
Im sorry for what has happened to you today and for the doctors rude bedside manner. Like DH said everything does happen for a reason. I was going to say have you looked into IVF. And it saves wasting a hole lot of money that may not even bring you that bundle. I know there is a great program down here in sydney at westmead fertility clinic and you only have to pay the out of pocket costs and thats all. It cost me $1450 for my full IVF cycle. And they do it for interstate people too and plane rides arent to much these days

Kiya how old are you and your DH?????

Kiya - let me at the firggen pr!ck!!!!!! HOw dare the biarstard dictat (oh im very angry right now) how many children you can and cant have. Rip the a rseholes penis of and tell him he cant have sex anymore!!!!!! GRGHESGFK:IBSGOUIPBHO:GE
COme down to VIc honey - they do it at the royal womens here and it takes 10 months all round. I had 2 appointments, Jed and to ummm la la in a cup and i had to do bloods at ov time then I had to go back 2 weeks before the op.
Oh I am SO ANGRY!!!!!!!!!

you gals are wonderful......we are both 37 with me just turned.....mumof5 where did you get your ivf done? maz i know exactly how you feel.....thats how dh is feeling.......he wants to write a nasty email to the hospital......my eldest dd has been great........she is my rock today, without her and dh i would be a bubbling mess on the floor in a heap i am sure.....this is obviously one of those hurdles we have to jump to get tot he finish line which god willing will be a beautiful baby :-) cheers kiya

Hi Kiya im going thru Mestmead fertility clinic. There has been no mucking around and there wonderful and it all takes 2 months tops. I have 21 days left of treatment till i have my eggs taken out then i have the long two week wait:rolleyes:.

mumof5.....that is awesome.....from what dh has been saying today, he wants to now try IVF/ICSI ...... i love going on a plane.....so it is good that they do interstate patients.....do they have a web address? if not i will look for their number and give them a call tomorrow as well as now apparently calling the horse transport people to get my daugthers new horse transported......cheers kiya

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Hi all,
kiya so sorry to read about all you and your family have been through, it brought me to tears, its hard to think someone can be so cold and unfeeling.
I also believe in fate and perhaps that was not the path for you to take. All the best if you do decide to give IVF a go and I`m thinking of you.
onemore...

Thanks everyone for your kind words. Like they say when door closes anther one opens. This morning i rang through to Westmead IVF and they are sending me some information on everything. We will fly down to do all the appointments, but with airfares being so cheap these days, it is when you think about the same cost as filling two cars with fuel. I know one day we will have the baby we want so desperately, and if i keep saying that to myself then that will be enough to keep pushing me to keep going. Cheers kiya

kiya - glad that yourve found the sunshine after the rain...still id beat that doctor over the head!

Glad you have found another option Kiya!! It's great with the cheap air fares huh?
Hello Miss Maz, how is the m/s has it gone now? My bet is a girl cos you've been so sick.

Hey Storm i read your boy is coming home???? Did i miss something??? Where has he been??

OOOooooo he got in BIG trouble so he took off to WA!!!! But had such a bad time over there he has stuck his tail between his legs LOL!! I don't care I'm just glad he is coming home!

Holy cow that little **** and hes how old??? Reminds me of my sister when i was about 9 and she was 12 and she ran away to bloody victoria mind you. Well atleast hes come to his sences and hes coming home. Boy the things i have to look forward to

I know grrrrr, I just got off the phone from his father & he is spewing, can't make him do anything. I told him to tell Dylan that when he gets back it is not going to be how it was before, cos, quite frankly I will not put up with it, & if he doesn't like it, where is he gonna go????????? Little crappy pants. He is almost 15, going on bloody 18 he thinks.

You go girl let him know who is boss. I have always worried that my kids may think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence and i tell them its not. I guess as they get older they will find out for themselves and will get hurt in the process

It's a very hard lesson to learn though, but it wasn't anything I have made him too, so he only has himself to blame really.& the useless father of course!!

And there sure is plenty of them around!!!

hi guys, that is disgusting kiya. you have every right to complain. I would. He has broken ethical and moral ground. Take the time and complain about him to the hospital. There are other dr in qld. Have you heard about yazdani? he works at the mater private and public in brisbane. he was my second option. please report him.
mum, thats great about how many days left
storm, i hear you...... teenage years are hard for both parents and adults....
maz, lovely bump!

Hi girls....AF arrived this morning and i welcomed her with open arms for the first time in my life hehe.
Oh my god if anyone around you has the flu tell them to go AWAY.
Gee its really knocked me for a six and ive even had to keep my daughter home to look after me.
I best be back to bed.

OH gee Mum of 5 that's no good.Hope it buggers off soon.

OH Storm im so hapy to hear that Dylan is on his way home matie. I bet you wont sleep awink until he's back in his own bed.
Hello everyone - im slack, sorry very tired and I still have to do some sewing..ahhh shoot me.

Yep Maz, I'm as happy as a pig in ....
Love the sexy ticker too!!!!!!!

Hi everyone,

Iv`e been reading all the old posts, right from the begining and some of the stuff you guys have been through is incredible, tears of both joy and sadness.

Storm glad to hear your boy is on his way home, when I was younger my older sister took of when she was about 15 and lets just say she doesn`t have much to do with the family any more, not that we havn`t tried. She has 4 children now and unfortunatly she left them about 2 years ago, can`t understand her. I guess leopards don`t change their spots, but that`s a whole other story.

hey have any of you heard about a kookaburra is a sign of pregnancy what do you think i just keep hearing it that's all!

Oh Dea don't say that!! One has been laughing at me for the past 2 days!

Hello One more!! I am very relaxed now I know he is coming home!!

there was one in the tree right near my house and it went off and dh goes your pregnant! and i said what! he said your pregnant he even said that when kookaburra's go off that means pregnancy.

Yep, ive heard that one too and its worked for me every time..(Sorry Storm pmsl)
Feng Sue (how ever it is spelt) says to put 9 grains of rice at your bedroom door and hang a baby jump suit on the middle right side wall in there to will bring a baby. Nearly everyone I know (including me) who has done it has fallen within the month..didint you do it to Storm?

those kookaburra's have been around me for a couple of weeks i went to a friends house and there it was up on the power pole laughing it's head off. but i didn't know about the rice thing! wow.

Well I`ll have to give it a try !! Has anyone done the wedding ring one before? loop a piece of cotton through it, hold it inside a closed fist then open your hand out flat with the ring just above your hand and it`s suposed to tell you how many children you will have. My mum used to do it when we were younger. For boys it will swing back and forth and for girls around in a circle. My mum had 5 girls 1 boy and 2 girls and also one more girl after my brother which she lost at about 3 months pg.
I have tried this several times and I get 2 boys which I have and 1 girl which I`m hopping for, give it a try it`s pretty freaky.

yeah i've done the wedding ring one when i was pregnant! with my kids. with that it was put above my belly and yeah that's all i remember.