Tubal Reversals #8

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Kiya, best of luck for your op, hope all goes smoothly.

HAHA Luv i'll be very happy with one thanks. Yeah go back and see the specialist seems like something weird is going on.
Good luck Kiya hope all goes well :pray:

Thanks Storm i managed to work it out yesterday,not very hard at all.

good luck kiya i hope it all goes well for you. :) and a big hello to everyone else:)

Hi All....well today has officially been classed as the worst day of my life. I went to my appointment, to be given a big fat NO. The dr said that they stopped making new appointments for the TR 6mths ago. I have waited all this time to be seen, and to travel a long way to be in office for a total of 5 mins. The dr was very rude, and basically said to me that in order for me to have the TR done publically, either my husband had to be killed and i had to have a new husband or one of my children. I was absolutely floored with that one. He then proceded to tell me that if i wanted this bad enough, and in his opinion i shouldn't have any more children because i didn't need anymore children, i should then go private. I walked out of his practically in tears, and went straight to my husband and 2 girls. I have never had my heart so torn apart by anyone until today. I don't know where to go now. I guess we are now having to look at going private, goodness knows how much that will cost me. I am however determined to find a way of having another baby, and if it means we have to go private, then i guess it will mean that we can try sooner. Time for me to go and have another cry. Cheers kiya :cry:

O M G Kiya wtf? You poor poor thing, who was the doctor? What an a hole!!

kiya that's crap as storm said who did you see? i cannot believe they said that to you. and who does he think he is telling you that you don''t need anymore children what a jerk.

Hi Storm...it was the same dr dea saw here in qld.....then while he was saying all of this, he lounge back in his chair so matter of factly as if it was nothing, while i sat there holding back the tears......it was nightmarish....kiya

hubby sat quietly in the car the whole way home, just holding my hand....he took me out in the back yard and just let me cry on him....it has also effected him, because he is also so wanting to have another baby.....my eldest daughter 11yrs, also came home went into her room and slamned the door.....she is also wanting a new baby brother or sister....so really it has effected the whole family....kiya

that is what he said to me i would have had to lose a child and everything else. and he asked me how many kids i had & i told him i had four and why i wanted to have another baby and i told him i remarried and i wanted to give my husband another baby as he only has one from a previous relationship. he said nothing to me about having enough children. all i can say to you and your family kiya is i'm sorry.

dea.....thank-you for everything (in a good way).....you have been great along this journey......yes it is sad that it didn't happen the way we wanted it to happen, but like dh just said.....things happen for a reason, and that he feels deep in his heart, that something is going to happen, and we will find a way of having another baby......he is also wanting me to look into ivf, so this way we can cover all bases so to speak.....we will still keep our options of a tr, but we are not probably also going to look into the ivf route as well :-) cheers kiya

I would go & see another tr dr, or is he the only one for the public system?
he has no right to deny you because he "thinks" you have enough children.
Can you complain to someone? Gosh it just doesn't sound right.

he was the only dr doing it pubicly in qld that i know of......we tried all the hospitals both in brisbane and out of brisbane.......i didn't even get a chance to plead my case so to speak.....i agree, a dr does not have the right to say whether you do or don't have enough children....last time i checked i though it was the husband/partner & wife/partner who made that decision since they are making the baby....cheers kiya

Hi kiya.....
Im sorry for what has happened to you today and for the do.SORRY THE BABY DID SOMETHING AND STUFFED IT ALL UP!!!

Hi kiya.....
Im sorry for what has happened to you today and for the doctors rude bedside manner. Like DH said everything does happen for a reason. I was going to say have you looked into IVF. And it saves wasting a hole lot of money that may not even bring you that bundle. I know there is a great program down here in sydney at westmead fertility clinic and you only have to pay the out of pocket costs and thats all. It cost me $1450 for my full IVF cycle. And they do it for interstate people too and plane rides arent to much these days

Kiya how old are you and your DH?????

Kiya - let me at the firggen pr!ck!!!!!! HOw dare the biarstard dictat (oh im very angry right now) how many children you can and cant have. Rip the a rseholes penis of and tell him he cant have sex anymore!!!!!! GRGHESGFK:IBSGOUIPBHO:GE
COme down to VIc honey - they do it at the royal womens here and it takes 10 months all round. I had 2 appointments, Jed and to ummm la la in a cup and i had to do bloods at ov time then I had to go back 2 weeks before the op.
Oh I am SO ANGRY!!!!!!!!!

you gals are wonderful......we are both 37 with me just turned.....mumof5 where did you get your ivf done? maz i know exactly how you feel.....thats how dh is feeling.......he wants to write a nasty email to the hospital......my eldest dd has been great........she is my rock today, without her and dh i would be a bubbling mess on the floor in a heap i am sure.....this is obviously one of those hurdles we have to jump to get tot he finish line which god willing will be a beautiful baby :-) cheers kiya

Hi Kiya im going thru Mestmead fertility clinic. There has been no mucking around and there wonderful and it all takes 2 months tops. I have 21 days left of treatment till i have my eggs taken out then i have the long two week wait:rolleyes:.