Thanks Ladies, I got it in, and it was quite good. I think I need to cut the stem, and I need to work on how to get it out - that was awkward. That suction is STRONG!!!
i was just gonna ask about the suction haha!

How are they compared to a tampon? i hate those damn things... and if I can avoid them I will. Eg. Last week Nan took DS to swimming lessons so I didn't have to use one!