this afternoon we've been doing a big clean up - finishing unpacking, sorting more stuff for DH to take to charities tomorrow (seeing he's working at one) and just generally making the house more livable. He has been in and out of the room, so i haven't taken a lot of notice. He has a shocking habit of not speaking so i'm often only aware of him by his shadow or if he sniffs or something

so i was standing in our walk in robe earlier. the door to the ensuite is just inside the robe. i was sorting out clothes and hanging them and not doing much when i heard what i thought was him sniff a couple of times, and the room was darkened by a large shadow. i could have sworn he walked through the robe to the ensuite - to the point i spoke to him, and when he didn't answer, i looked in the ensuite and then out in our room and the hallway to try and find him. i eventually heard him talking to DD in the garage - on the other side of the house!

so, it would appear we have a large male here with us! i doubt it is anyone that has passed here (the last tenants were, i believe, the first in the house, and the house is only three or so years old). is it possible someone followed us? i always felt safe when DH was away, like his mum was there at the old house, but she was only a smaller lady. for a while i felt his brother as well, but that wasn't the same as today - i felt uncomfortable - this didn't freak me out - as i said, i was looking for DH so it must have been a somewhat comforting feeling

can anyone see who this is?