thread: I want to connect with my Dad...help, anyone?

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  1. #1
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    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
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    I want to connect with my Dad...help, anyone?

    My father passed in tragic circumstances in 2006. For a long time I didn't deal with his death in the best way possible. I would think about him everyday, but for over 2 years, I never really felt his presence, never dreamed about him. Maybe I was too traumatised and blocked it all out.

    I have been having dreams about him for about a year now. Sometimes, maybe 4 times since he died, I feel like I have felt him present, but I am not sure. When I dream about him, the 'formula' is always the same; we are usually in the town he lived in, usually with other people. Dad is back, but to other people it is no big deal. It feels like there is a pretty good 'explaination' for why he is back that people genereally seem to accept. I am always like Dad you're back! How can you be here, you're dead!!? He usually shrugs it off. He has never comforted me, talked to me really about his death, just when he acts like it's no biggie that he's back. Sometimes, he is also the 'bad guy' in my dreams and I am afraid of him I have a fear of corpses and dead things/people, but he is always living in all of my dreams. Can anyone help me out?

  2. #2
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    Oct 2009
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  3. #3
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    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
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    and again BUMP

  4. #4
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    Jul 2009
    557

    Hey hun,

    I dont have any advice just wanted to give you a i hope someone else has some advice/help for you.

  5. #5
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    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
    7,177

    thanks hun I'm hoping Maz or someone will come in here and give me a hand. Maz?

  6. #6
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    Jul 2009
    557

    I hope she pops in too for your sake i do have a story tho when i was about 8 my pop passed away, the night of his funeral i woke up to a feeling of someone tickling my feet i woke up and seen my pop (well not accually him) but he told me to look after my nan. Ever since that day i have but i can imagine you wanting some answers!