I haven't had those symptoms, but used to lose my mind on the pill (very nasty mood swings). If it's making you that sick, I'd get it taken out ASAP.

I went off the pill in June 07 and used a combination of Fertility Planning (thermo-sympto method) with condoms/withdrawal successfully before TTC in May 09.

Any chance of DH getting the snip or would that be dependent on insurance too?

GL