OK maybe you girls can help me.

No I am not preg yet, BUT WILL BE!!!! and I cant work out what the "protocol" would be for a baby shower after a late loss?

I know you normally have one for your first, and thats fine (and I did) 12 years ago, for my second DS I did not have one (8 years ago) but when I fell pregnant with Matthew there was such a huge gap between the boys that I thought it would be a bit of fun, and when it was suggested by my sister in law. I thought "what the hey... lets do it"

We had Matthew's baby shower when I was 36 weeks. Matthew passed away during labour at 39 weeks 2 days. Everyone who went to his shower, also attended his funeral. My question is, WHEN I get preg again, what do you think the rules are for another shower?

Thank you

Tess