Thanks everyone for your imput. I was kind of thinking that perhaps my body isn't going to do it because it's already holding on at 9weeks still and havent' had even the slightest of cramping....but a part of me wants to wait another couple weeks - just in case....but i don't really want to go much further than that i dont think because i'm already pretty upset - considering I went into the scan expecting twins; and kinda came out with none.
Will go back to my gp and chat to her next week.