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Hey Kirsty
The tatt on your ankle sounds great! I wanted to get a Celtic knotwork band around mine, but it was too detailed and too small :( so I just got a triquetra on the front of my ankle.
Well Felius and I are currently TTC. We have been for the last month. I think I was ready to start again after our last m/c early this year, but Felius was a bit more scared than I was. I think finding BellyBelly has helped him a huge amount. Just seeing what other couples have gone through has helped him to figure out what's been going on in my miind sometimes. So last month we decided we were ready to try again. I know that getting that BFP will never have the same excitement as it did the first time. We'll be scared the whole way through.
It's good that you're giving yourselves some time to greive for Alex, and to thank him for coming into your lives. You sound like you've given things a lot of thought. You'll try again when you're ready, and only you can decide when that is.
Wishing you all the best for the next few months. When it all gets too much you can always turn to BB....sometimes talking to people who understand is the best thing.
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Hey Zola
DH & I were talking last nite & I had said to him how much I miss being PG, & he asked if I wanted to start TTC now! I said no not just yet & I think he was a bit upset. I mean I'd love to move on to TTC but think I am too scared in thinking what could go wrong. Which I know is silly as this time we are going to go to an OB as well as our own Dr, so I know that things will be monitored better. I just feel that my body needs some time to go back to normal & for me to emotionally get to the point where I can go think of TTC without all the "what ifs". Hope that he understands where I am coming from, I think he does but he just says it is up to me. So don't really know if he is fine with it or not, guess time will tell.
Good luck to you guys in the TTC! Have they been able to give you any reasons as to why you m/c? You are extremely strong & brave in my eyes to be able to keep trying for a baby. I really hope things work out for you guys.
