For those who have lost.....

[mummydreamer]

for those of you who have had a late loss, and then gone on to have healthy babies, how did you go about it?

i know it's only been nearly 2 weeks since i lost J, but the topic has already come up about future babies, with the hospital staff, with my parents, friends, etc....and whilst i am totally not truly ready to start even contemplating whether or not i want another baby, im just curious to know what others have done that have gone on to have more kids? J was 38 weeks when he was born, and the 2 days before he died, i actually went to an ultrasound and a midwives appt, so i don't think i could have been more closely monitored than what i was at that time, although the hospital have already told me that if i were to go back i would have to go through the 'high risk' clinic, etc....

so my question is, what did you guys do with labour, inducing, etc? from what i haveb seen, a lot of women have opted for elective c/s at 37 weeks or something.....is the normal process in this situation?

thanks everyone