Today is my ds's bday his been here a decade!! But then on the downside it's his twin brothers anniversary, the day he came into the world sleeping never to open his eyes and see the love around him
Ds is awfully quiet today but I plan to make the day about him!! Tomorrow we will celebrate Isaiah by planting a tree and then writing letters and taking photos and placing them in a bottle and throwing it into the ocean... That was ds's idea.. He wants the letters and pics to be free like Isaiah is..
As I try not to cry infront of ds my heart breaks at the thought his not complete.. And that he is never going to know his wonderful brother..
Happy bday ds's ...
I just sent you a PM then found this post. Happy Birthday to both your boys.. I hope your Earthside DS has heaps of fun, and what a beautiful idea for Isaiah. xx
Thank you so much ladies your thoughts are very much appreciated..
Thank you he has a fun filled day today but he is still very quiet.. Sure he will snap out of it hopefully..
Thanks again ladies you all make me smile..
It's been alittle bit of a rough day so far we left the house about an Hr ago and half an hour before that I pulled ds aside and asked if he was ok? He wasn't very happy, he informed me that one of the kids brothers( one coming today and alittle older then ds) was telling everyone he killed his brother and he is going to be lonely forever.. So I'm thinking of approaching this little boys mum? Do you think it will cause friction? I'm very upset as ds is visibly upset and cried alittle bit over it too. I assured him it's not true and that he will never be lonely and that Isaiah was taken by god and I couldn't stop him doing so.. I'm really dumbfounded anyone could say such a thing and that it has ruined my little ds spirit, his now rock climbing but isn't completely himself...
i would definately tell the boys mum! that is wrong someone needs to set him straight and if it causes friction, well thats to bad, he needs to know that it is not your ds's fault and spreading stuff like that is wrong. hope everything gets sorted.
Sarah your right, I guess I'm still shocked that a kid would even say anything like that..
Will wait for his mum to come back and might have to have a chat.. Just don't want any confrontation for ds today
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