My MiL just called and completely ****ed me off! My SiL (her daughter who I am great friends with) obviously called to tell them about the loss of JellyBean and my DnC. My DH was supposed to call but he was being slack so I asked my SiL.

So, to get to the point, I answer and she says "Sorry to hear about your...operation...but it was for the best" Are you ****ing serious??? I said,"no not for the best but very unfortunate" - she couldn't even say "miscarriage" or mention the word baby. MY baby DIED - it wasn't "for the best" yes, something went wrong, whether with the baby or my body but it was devestating. She then proceeded to tell me that she lost a baby between her first and second "but she wasn't all that upset" well GOOD FOR HER!

I generally really like my MiL but she has seriously upset me tonight - it is usually only her comments about my weight that are inappropriate!

Thanks for reading - I'm going back to eat the rest of my "party bucket" of malteasers