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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jul 2009
    Sydney west
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    Feel empty

    Its been 7 weeks today since i was induced and my lil man left me Im finding it really hard the last few days. I thought i was getting better but now i dont.
    I have been waking up the last few nights with a fright and felt so scared and sad. ive had to wake up the other half to wrap his arms around me to feel safe again.
    Im so scared. I feel empty, alone, lost and in a big hole that i cant get out of. I feel as though ive crumbled.
    I cant fix whats happened and it hurts. I dont know what to do or how to help myself. I have no answers for anything.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    1,223

    MissK I'm so sorry for the loss of your little man. I just couldn't read your post and not say anything. I want to send you a great big squishy hun. I wish there was more that I could say but words are beyond me atm.
    I'm just so sad for you

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Geelong
    3,438

    So very sorry for the loss of your little man. May he fly free with the angels in heaven.

    Regards,
    Dianne
    Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    surrounded by textbooks, cat toys and love
    1,124

    Oh Darlin, I'm so sorry that your hurting. It will take time and some days will be better than others. Be nice to yourself and ask for your other half's arms whenever you need them xoxo

  5. #5
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    Nov 2004
    Chasing Daylight...
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    MissK I'm so sorry

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Mar 2006
    4,542

    I'm so sorry for your loss MissK. Fly free little angle.

  7. #7
    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Jun 2009
    455

    MissK, I'm so sorry this is such a difficult, sad, hard time for you. My thoughts are with you.

    Alice xx

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Apr 2006
    In the ning nang nong...
    1,277

    MissK, surround yourself with all the love you can right now. I'm so sorry for the loss of your little one. Sending squishy hugs to you

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    Melbourne
    4,031

    MissK..I am so sorry for your loss.
    You sound so sad and defeated...it's a very tough time for you and your partner.
    Have you and your partner had any counselling? this is defenitely worth doing.
    Please consider the counselling.
    If you wake up in the night or struggle anytime, talk to the Bonnie Babes foundation Grief Counselling: 1300 266 643, they are amazing people who will listen and listen.
    Take care MissK

  10. #10
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    4,637

    MissK, I am so sorry for your loss. I know no words can describe the pain. Please seek support hun, especially from your loved ones, and councelling has really worked for me. You are in my thoughts and prayers, fly free little angel boy.