it's been

[windyL1975]

hi ladies

well it's been 2 weeks since my m/c
it's been getting alittle better but i still have my moments.
like last night i had a good cry for an hour.
now i'm starting to be angry at certain things like seeing other pg ladies
or talking to one of my bf's she is also pg she was 3 weeks ahead of me. we were happy to be pg together
i almost broke down over the phone when she was talking about her pg.
but i held it in
sorry just wanted to vent

[human bean]

I'm so very sorry for your loss, Windy. And don't be sorry for needing to vent - we are hear to listen and many of us sadly understand just how much heartache you are going through.

Perhaps on a day you are feeling a little stronger you could mention to your bf how you are feeling, and explain that whilst you are happy for her, that you are struggling with how her progressing pregnancy is making you feel and how many of your emotions it brings to the surface. I hope she would understand and simply be more aware of how you may be feeling, and it may make things easier for the both of you as both of your due dates come closer and then pass.

Give yourself time to grieve for your angel baby, don't feel you can't or shouldn't

[Grake]

hi windyL1975 and human bean,

windyL1975 - I know how you feel. I am 1 week post my m/c and I have the same feelings as you. I get angry/jealous when I see a pg woman or I hear about ppl finding it so easy to to get pg.

I totally agree with human bean and see how you go mentioning it to your bf.

Its absolutely normal to be upset. I am all ears if you want to vent some more!

Take care

[windyL1975]

thanks girls
i haven't talked to her since then yet. i will talk to her about it i'm sure she will understand how i feel since she also had a M/C before. but i also know she is excited about being pg
again and i'm happy for her. it just hurts you know and brings back to me that i should be pg with her.

[MistyFying]

Windy I'm so sorry for your loss.

[ellen21]

sorry for your loss.........but this is not the end of world.........everything that happens it happens for some good ...............i pray that your wish come true.......all the luck