I have a few people on my facebook that have had late losses and babies born sleeping. They are often in my thoughts and sometimes I look through their pics as I do with other friends, but I'm always worried about commenting on those pics. Is it ok? I often find myself writing something then deleting it because I feel like its wrong for me to do it? I mean months, years after the pics have first been posted, ones I've already commented on. Is something like "still loving this one, he/she is gorgeous" appropriate?

It's so confusing and I don't want to upset anyone but I also want to let them know that I care, they matter and so do their babies.