thread: How many negative tests do I have to have!!

  1. #1
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    Jan 2012
    15

    How many negative tests do I have to have!!

    Two miscarriages and twenty months of trying to conceive and still no pregnancy. Not sure how many more negative tests I can handle.

    I have a good diet, take all the right vitamins and have been checked out by a fertility specialist. I know when I am going to ovulate and have records of all my cycle going back years and still nothing!! Every month, I think this is it, only to get my period. Of course my body likes to throw in a few late periods just to really play with my head.

    I am surrounded by baby talk and pregnant announcements, but seriously enough is enough. I am so tired of getting my hopes up and being let down, but of course there is always that voice saying don't give up, this is your month and you jump back on the emotional roller coaster.

    I have tonight got yet another negative result, which is the reason for my post.

    Just very sad, disappointed and over it!

  2. #2
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    Jan 2012
    Western Suburbs Melbourne
    651

    How many negative tests do I have to have!!

    Sorry your journey has been bumpy, I can relate somewhat!
    Recently a cousin has become pregnant, after battling PCOS for 6years +. She lost 6kgs, was doing regular acupuncture and seeing a Chinese medicinal practitioner, to get regular cycles and regular ovulation.
    Not sure what tests you have had, or options you have tried but just food for thought!
    I'm not going to say stay positive (hate when people tell me that!) but trust your instincts and keep your eye on the prize!

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    Oct 2009
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    Right there with ya


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  4. #4
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    TTC is so hard and so demoralising...

    You say that you have been tested, but what about your partner? Is he looking after himself as well as you're looking after yourself?

  5. #5
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    Jan 2012
    15

    Both me and my husband have been checked by the fertility specialist, nothing wrong with either of us. He also has a good diet and exercises.........life can just be very cruel.

  6. #6
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    Apr 2009
    78

    How many negative tests do I have to have!!

    Yes life can be cruel. Just be kind to yourself!