My sister has lost her baby

**Liviam** · February 11th, 2011, 04:12 PM

My poor sister is currently in hospital being induced after finding out that her precious little baby has died

.
She is 28 weeks and is being induced today. She has asked for us to come and meet bubby which I am more than happy too. After all bubby is our neice/nephew regardless of anything.
I went to work last night and have got a few beautiful bubby outfits, some wraps and a croqueted blanket for her to dress bubby in, an outfit to be buried in and one for her take home as a keepsake. I've also got her a teddy bear to hold when she leaves hospital as no mum should ever leave with empty arms after giving birth.
It is such a bitter sweet day. My sister is able to become a mum for the first time but she isn't ever going to hear her baby cry, or watch him/her reach any milestones, sit by bubbys bassinette watching them sleep.
I am just devestated for her. No one should ever bury a child let alone one who hasn't even taken a breathe.
I'm just sitting here waiting for the phone call to say my beautiful neice/nephew has been born

I just don't know what to say to her - I know there are no right words

Thank you for letting me scream/cry/vent in such a safe place.

**Trillian** · February 11th, 2011, 04:14 PM

Oh no

I'm so sorry to hear that her little one couldn't stay.

**Shellbelle** · February 11th, 2011, 04:16 PM

I am so sorry :-(

**Party-of-five** · February 11th, 2011, 04:18 PM

Im so sorry for your familys loss hugs for you and your sister

**~Hestia~** · February 11th, 2011, 04:20 PM

I'm so sorry.

**Arimeh** · February 11th, 2011, 04:21 PM

I'm so sorry

nothing prepares you for that phone call, and it is so devastating, even being the Aunty

Big big hugs to you and your sister xxx

**Laranna** · February 11th, 2011, 04:22 PM

I'm so sorry

**BabyWrangler** · February 11th, 2011, 04:25 PM

Oh sweetness how heart breaking, especially for your sister and her family, but also for you too.

to you all.

You're a wonderful sister for collecting so many special things for your sister and the precious little Angel.

Tonight, there will be a new little star shining brightly in the sky.....

**AndiE** · February 11th, 2011, 04:17 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news.
Thinking of your sister and you and your families. You're a gem for supporting your sister so well.
Take care xx

**Jewel** · February 11th, 2011, 04:20 PM

I'm so so sorry.

xox

**LizLemon** · February 11th, 2011, 04:21 PM

I'm so sorry for your sister and your whole family. This is truly tragic. So many babies are becoming angels at the moment and it is heartbreaking.
But wow what a wonderful support she has in you.

**nickle730** · February 11th, 2011, 04:24 PM

I am so sorry your sister has lost her angel baby. She is fortunate to have a wonderful sister like you offering support.

**Catastrophic** · February 12th, 2011, 06:43 PM

:-( i'm so sorry.

**BabyWrangler** · February 12th, 2011, 06:49 PM

Ok...big deep breath...trying to type really quickly before the tears start again!!

Congratulations to your incredible sister on the birth of her beautiful little Xavier Rory, and congratulations to you also on becoming a proud Auntie.
He sounds just adorable, its no wonder the Angels wanted him to themselves.

I'm so sorry for you all that he was just too perfect for this world, and that the night sky needed his beautiful light to create another shining star.
May his shining star light the darkest night, and may you all feel proud when you look at the sky and see him shining.

I know he will be sadly missed, and is very much loved.

to you all.