thanks so much Bobbie for taking the time to respond, i really appreciate it.
My DH seems more worried about the workload a baby will bring, as we have 2 kids already.. I understand but it doesn't help me really.
I know people have good intentions, and for the most part i take that into consideration.. but other times its just too much.
Thanks again bobbie. Do you have any children? have you been ttc yet?