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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    951

    Sorry to ask but I am scared

    Hi ladies,

    Sorry to ask this but I am scared and on my own.... all night I have had the most painful cramping in my back and lower tummy, like serve period pain... I think I slept about 3 hours total...... I did vomit this morning - guess positive right? But the pain is still there that I can hardly stand straight....... So is this a sign of a miscarriage? Sorry to ask such a painful question but my DH is away with work and I sitting in bed crying and not sure what to do

    thanks
    Kerry xx

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2009
    2,251

    Not necessarily. You get lot's of pains and twinges in early pregnancy but that being said it sounds like you're in alot of pain so you should prob get yourself to the Dr. Have you had a scan yet? Pain without bleeding usually isn't a concern but better to be safe and get the Dr to look at you. Good luck, hope all is fine, hugs.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
    9,362

    Oh sweetie. That sounds like an awful lot of pain.
    Ring your GP. Ask for an urgent appointment.


  4. #4
    BellyBelly Member

    Sep 2010
    North West Victoria, Australia
    3,003

    Oh honey. I hope its not a miscarriage.

    I'll be thinking of you. Please go to the doctor.

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2008
    In snuggle land
    4,499

    I think you need to go to hospital. As you've had an ectopic before, you're at increased risk of another one. Get someone to drive you. Does this feel similar to your EP?

    I really hope it's nothing.

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2007
    3,734

    I hope its nothing but would get checked out just in case (esp as you have had an ectopic). hoping for the best,.

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2008
    Kurri Kurri
    1,715

    chepie it could actually be a kidney infection. I have had 2 of those and it sounds just like what you have got. Get to your GP or the ED at your closest hospital and get checked out.

  8. #8
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Mar 2008
    Vic
    4,806

    When I had symptoms like that in early pregnancy, I went to the hospital and was found to have a severe UTI. It hadn't given me any signs at all, until I was at the vomiting stage. It had hit my kidneys, resulting in major pain. I chose the hospital over the GP because I knew the hospital would sort it out then and there.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    951

    Hi ladies,

    Wow thank you so much for your responses. I had a scan last week and bub is in the right spot so I knew it wasn't ectopic - and let me tell you that's a pain I will never forget...... My mum drove down from Syd - god love her!! Been to the doc and KimB your right possible kidney infection. Waiting on results....

    Once again thank you, don't know where I would some days without all the wonderful ladies here

    xx

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    Gold Coast
    965

    How are you Chepie? Hope your ok lovely xxxx

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    951

    Hi Yas, awhh thanks for thinking of me!! Well I have finally stopped vomiting - not the ms kind! Still in a lot of pain and temps of 38 but I really cant swallow panadol because it comes straight back up! To be honest I feel like I have been hit by a truck. DH arrives home late tonight, so I slowly getting the kids dinner ready and almost time for bed xxx

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    Gold Coast
    965

    Oh sweetheart that's horrible! what time does your DH get home? You should be in bed! Have you got the results yet? That temp doesn't sound good at all hun. Thinking of you xxxxx