Surprise :bfp:

[Char-leighs mum]

Hey All
Well we got a suprise on tuesday and we weren't ttc. I'm really all over the place about it as it has only been 6 months since losing Char-leigh(stillborn @35wks), Im so scared that I'm goin to lose this one too.
Been to the Dr today and they say my HCG numbers are low 162 but i am only 4wks 4d, have to have bloods again next week to make sure they are going up. This will be a high risk pg cause I have a blood clotting disorder called FVL which I will be on daily injections of clexane and I also get GD which is controled by insulin. Is it normal after a stillborn to feel this way about the next pg??
Cheers Kelly
Me31 DH33
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6wks 10
35wks 11 Char-leigh

[diannescruffy]

That is such wonderful news hun. It really is normal after a loss, I was scared the whole way through with DD, wishing you all the very best.

Regards,
Dianne

[~StarBright~]

HI Kelly!

Congrats on your BFP!! That is wonderful news!! I wish you the best for this pregnancy- I remember you coming here after you lost Char-Leigh.

It is completely normal to be absolutely terrified, worried and scared!!! I definately recommend that you check out one of the Pregnancy after Loss threads on here. You can chat with other mums who are in the same boat as you , I wouldnt have made it through my subsequent pregnancies (mentally) without the support I got from my fellow mums in that thread.

I hope your pregnancy goes smoothly for you and your treatments help you to bring home a screaming happy baby xxoxoxoxo

[Yas]

Congratulations hun! Massive hugs and sticky vibes. I haven't had a stillborn, but i would imagine everything your feeling is totally normal!
Lots of love xxxxxxxx

[skybie]

Very normal to feel that way,im nearly 13 weeks and that feeling of fear still hasnt gone, and i doubt it will until we hold our little babies in our arms.
wishing u all the best for a smooth and easy pregnancy xxx

[Babyluv]

Wow such great news. I would assume that what you are feeling is perfectly normal. Give yourself time to adjust. I didn't go through what you went through and I couldn't relax until I held my girl in my arms.
Here's to a happy healthy pregnancy for you. I hope your treatment works and that you will be holding your precious bundle in no time. hugs

[tellytubby]

Congratulations on your beautiful surprise
I imagine your worries are completely normal, but hoping you still manage to enjoy the pregnancy

Wishing you a happy, and healthy, BORING, 9 months

[Tegam]

Wishing you a happy, and healthy, BORING, 9 months

so well said