Waiting for AF after M&L #3

Hey Girls

AF has just left me so must be heading your way!

Hope you're all doing ok.

Here's hoping that I get mine soon

mrsaym + charlie - Did my HPT and got a :bfn:
I'm not fussed, I just want AF to come if thats the case

Hey everyone I was looking all over for this thread and couldn't find it but anyway here it is just letting you guys know that unfortunately i am also waiting for my af i am getting so frustrated i was hoping it would come before i go on vacation. On friday it marked 5 weeks of my m/c. I was wondering if someone can giveme a little of advice. I m/c on june 22 and spotted a few days after then maybe two wks after i still have not gotten mf a/f but been noticing some white stuff on my tissue every time i go to the bathroom sorry for tmi. i figured i been ovulating but for so long it's been more than two weeks with this and been getting symptoms of getting my a/f but nothing has anyone gone through this or any suggestion of what this migh be.

Lanena - I'm about four and a half weeks post m/c and I've still not got mine, although it feels like it's coming around the corner :crossfingers:
I myself have gotten the white stuff as well, so don't worry too much about it :)

How's everyone else going?

Lanena, When I went to my Dr the other day I actually asked him this, I was nearly 6 weeks afer my m/c. He said it is normal to be still waiting at 6 weeks as your body needs to get over the stress etc of a m/c the hormones get really messed up. (I am now into my 7th week without AF but being that I have had Implanon I wont see her now for 6 months.) I had all the symptoms of her coming b4 then and though she even came for a day, it is hard to say don't worry about it but hang in there she will turn up. Ellie had to wait 8 weeks I think....if you are concerned try and see your Dr b4 going away.....

Liz - bugger about BFN maybe it is just too early too tell.....still keeping my fingers crossed for you....

Yep...8 weeks to the day for me...hang in there girls...she's just around the corner!

Wow I don't know I am really getting impatient instead of going to the doctor for a/f i think i might need to go to a shrink LOL. This friday makes six weeks and no a/f. With my luck she will turn up on the day i leave on vacation. I was hoping i could use that week for TTC. Anyway i be here for alittle while longer. much luck for everyone else.

For me, it's 5 weeks this Friday, but I'm not expecting it to come for another month or so - then again, I could be pg again and the bfn might have been because I was too early? Only time will tell

Hi girls,

I figured that I can join this thread now...since I had a d/c two weeks ago and now overcome the recovering period, officially waiting for AF, I am not anxious yet as I know it won't be for anther two weeks, buy hey, I am heading the right direction.

Some of you might already know my story, the road post D&C never gonna be easy but I think finally I can say I am in a different place now... I think I start to feel that I am able to start putting all the sad story behind me and look forward ...its nice to share this part of the journey with all of you...

Ellie, my dear friend, I am so excited for you that AF left you and hopefully you are regaining your energy to cycle soon...

LizJessie, you might well be pregnant, just wait for a couple of days and test again, fingers crossed for you...

BeiBei - I'm familiar with your story, so I'd happily welcome you to the thread :)
I still feel like I'm going to be in here for some time - so I'll be around for you to talk to, even if I do get a BFP, I'll still be in here talking to the girls that have helped me through things

Thanks LizJessie, just saw your signature, big congratulations on the engagement! That's wonderful!

Thankyou very much BeiBei! It's the first bit of good news I've had since I m/c'ed :)

It will be a start of string of good news rolling I am sure, so keep looking forward to future, I find it much easier than being depressed, I am done with that!

Wow! Congratulations on you engagement, LizJessie :confetti: That's lovely news!

I pop in here now and again (I was in here for 8 weeks waiting for AF so it felt like home!) - fingers crossed for everyone still waiting. Hope AF is only being a stranger if you're UTD! If not, let's crack the whip and get AF moving!!

:D

Thankyou very much kbowman! :) I'm very very happy it happened :D

BeiBei - Everyone said good news, or things in general, come in threes, so we can only hope things will be better - I'm a lil over being depressed, I'm still rather meh, but that's how I always am, so I'm guessing I'm back to being myself!!

Congratulations LizJessie! Absolutely wonderful! Best wishes!

Hi to everyone elst...still keeping an eye on you and hoping you will be out of here soon xxx

Thanks Ellie! :D Hope all has been well for you

How is everyone else?

Hi all,

Hoping I can join in here, waiting for AF after 2nd consecutive m/c (one March, one July). Had in injection of Methotrexate to induce the loss and bled for 3 solid weeks, has only recently stopped, so have no idea when I can expect AF.

Sorry to see a few familiar names in here :( Hope we are all out of here quickly and back into ttc again soon.

I'm so sorry to hear about your two consecutive m/c's *las* :hug:

I bet I'm going to be in here for a while now

So sorry to hear that its your second consecutive loss las, must be hard! I hope you will soon recover physically...

Afternoon Ladies

Yes, I am back - sorry have been MIA for a few weeks!!!
And still no AF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am now 7 weeks and 3 days post d&c, will it ever come back?????

Liz - Congrats on the engagement.

Ellie - How are you going? I am happy that AF finally visited you, but she missed me :(

Las - Sorry about your losses, I hope your stay is short.

BeiBei - I also am familiar with your story (a little bit anyways), you are more than welcome into the fun waiting game with us longtermers...

Best go and do something here....
Kelly

Hi everyone and thanks for the welcome :)

Lizjessie - congrats on your engagement! I loved planning my wedding, hope you do too!

Hoping AF comes on real soon for everyone too!

*las* and charlie - Thankyou both so much! They say good news comes in threes, let's hope I get some good news of the sort soon ;)

HI, everyone hope everyone is well. Sorry I have not been around but I have been trying to keep myself busy prepairing for my trip in two weeks I couldn'y take it waiting everyday for my af. But for some good news for a few days i was experincing some severe cramps moodiness some terrible acne and still i was discharging some white stuff and no a/f sorry for tmi. But today when i checked i was surprised of what i saw some spotting and alittle crampy. I decided to wait and go again to the bathrom and yes again spoting i just hope this means my a/f has finally arrrrriiiiiiiiiivvvvvveeeeddd!!! Sorry i am alittle over joyed. I will kep everyone posted. I truly hope that for those that their a/f still has not arrived wil get it very soon and feel the joy i am feeling right now. Hoping to ttc during my trip in two weeks. BY the way I am a little confused when i should start considering my first day of a/f would it be today spotting or when i starts being more noticible any info would realy help me alot sorry guys for the long post

Lanena, my FS clinic told me that AF begins when bleeding starts before noon as CD1, not spotting. HTH.

Hi ladies. I've been stalking this tread for the last month, also waiting for my AF after a natural m/c, and I need some advice...

Before my m/c I was a solid 28 day'er, usually with some spotting a couple of days before. It's now been over 4 weeks since my m/c and I still have no sign of AF (I know that it can take time for your cycle to get back into rhythm), but I've been getting slightly nauseous latley, with really sensitive and tender BB (especially nipples) and some mild cramping. When my AF is due, I generally just get some bloating as an indicator. Going on my cm, I think I o'ed 2 weeks ago.

What are the chances that I'm pg? or is it still a awaiting game for AF?:doh:

PinkLilly - I've got no idea to be honest, I'm feeling rather crampy, nauseous and tender BBs

Hi ladies,

Think I'd better join you.

I just had my 3rd m/c. Looks like the bleeding has stopped overnight so I am now officially waiting for my AF to return. Last time it returned 4 weeks later and as this m/c was identical to the last I'm thinking I should be expecting AF around 4 weeks from now.

I am waiting for a lap/fibroid resection/d&c in the public system at the moment... still no date. Have been waiting for one for at least a couple of months now. Wish I could get it over and done with as I don't know if it's the fibroid (was very small in the scan) causing the m/c's or if it's something else and until it is dealt with my ob/gyn doesn't want to see me. He warned me if I did conceive that I could m/c again and it looks like he was right. I wish I could've proved him wrong.

Pink lily - the only way to know is to take a test. Good luck.

Satya - I took a test last night but bpn:(. I'm not sure what to think though, with my last pg I never got a bfp, so I think it may be a genetic thing that I don't secrete enough HGC hormone in my urine for the hpt to work correctly. I've heard that that has happened to some women.

Anyone else had this?

Either way I'm just going to keep an eye out for AF and if I see her, I will send her your way :lol:

Well, if everything is going to plan, I should be seeing AF in 11 days from now - Thank goodness!

Lanena - Hope AF has well and truly arrived for you!

PinkLilly - I can't help you, my body does crazy things normally anyway, so sorry for your BFN, hope AF comes soon.

Satya - Oh sweetie, so sorry you need to be here, hope AF arrives quickly for you.

No news from me either, waiting..........

Hi guys, just a quick hello as I am heading out...hope everyone is doing well!

I am still waiting for my AF but not anxious yet...only 3 weeks after m/c

Hope you enjoyed you day out BeiBei.

I'm 6 weeks post m/c tomorrow (Friday) so I'm looking forward to AF coming

Hey, everone just stopping by to say hi and just wanted to let evryone know that after 7 weeks of waiting for my a/f it finally aarriiivveedd on tuesday :dance: i was really hoping it would come before i go on vacation and according to my o calender i should be o'ing during that week so i am really looking forward to going. I was worried a/f would come heavy and torturous but it's been like it was before regular so i an feling well excited to start ttc. I have everyone on my mind i will be sending my a/f soon to everyone so that we can meet in the other threads. i will be around to say hi.

Congrats Lanena! :dance:
I'm glad it came for you! Only 10 more days (or so) to go for me - I'm gonna be dancing when I finally get mine

Well done Lanena, take care of yourself and hope soon we will hear some fabulous news from you hun

Hi, everyone just wanted to say thank you for all the support. Posting and reading all your posts has helped me alot during my wait. I do hope that your af comes really soon and we could all meet in another thread. I am already on my fourth day with af and i can't wait to start TTC. Even though i am a little scared to go through a m/c again i am gonna take each day slowly. Anyway guys i will still be around here checking up on the arrival of your af hope everyone gets her soon.

Sounds good lanena :) Be happy to see you around here and chatting to you :)

Hi Girls

Lanena - excellent news about AF!

A biug hello to everyone else waiting on AF, I am still waiting I am on day 61 since the m/c......I thought that AF was here on Friday as I started spotting but that's all that it was spotting, then I got the nastiest cramps and backache on Sunday, so I thought yayayayayaya here she comes, but alas it not to be.

I have a DR appt on Thurs to try and figure out what is going on.

Sending AF vibes to all htose waiting on her to show up.
Kelly

Well, I'm kinda glad I'm not the only one waiting for AF *sighs* I've got nasty cramping lately too, and I've also got the backaches that come along with it - but there's just nothing there! *sighs again*