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  1. #1
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    Jun 2009
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    Who's going through toilet training right now?

    Hello!

    We started toilet training in earnest on the weekend. I bought loads of little terry-toweling pants and we "caught" every second pee in the toilet plus two poos! I bought a toddler seat and step stool for the toilet as he doesn't seem at all keen with the potty (except to put toys in). Our biggest success is putting him on the toilet when he first wakes up - yesterday after his nap he had a dry nappy.

    Today DS2 went to childcare in a pair of pants rather than a nappy - the childcare centre is very happy for this to happen.

    I just thought I'd see if anyone else is out there who would like to share the (somewhat messy) journey of toilet training!

  2. #2
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    Feb 2008
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    *sticks hand up*

    Sounds like your little man is going great guns! We have been trying for a couple of weeks. With no pants on DD is great (except with poos..havent yet managed to get one of those in the toilet. Thankfully we have floorboards so the clean up isn't so bad..lol). When she has undies on though she tends to just go and watch it dribble onto the floor. So quite a long way to go yet I think! I was excited a few days ago when she had underpants on and managed to tell me twice she needed to do a wee and didn't even get a drop on her undies. But the next day it was back to puddles on the floor!
    Doesn't help that my DF thinks it is somehow inappropriate for her to be wearing no pants when we are at home. I really dont understand it and he can't give me a reason beyond 'it's just wrong'. Nevermind she is only 2 1/2 years old!

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    we've been going slowly slowly here - just asking if he needs to go to the toilet (while still in nappies). Sometimes he does and manages a wee and other times he doesn't want to. We've caught the wee after church before wetting the nappy the past 2 weeks! . Not getting it always at home though. I've got childcare also asking if he needs to go at nappy check time. I'm not going straight to training pants this time (we tried in Oct for a week or so) as his eczema is playing up and I don't want to aggravate that anymore than it already is. Not having much success with the idea of a poo yet but I figure they're easier to clean up if they get caught in undies or nappy than wee all over the floor (we have a combo of lino, floorboards and carpet here)

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    Jul 2007
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    We have been trying on and off for a few weeks but DS1 is just not interested. We put all sorts of cool undies on him and take him to toilet or potty every 20 mins and you can bet after 4 or 5 times of this he will then wee in between on the floor in undies.

    We have a step, a seat that goes on top of toilet seat, a seat that goes under toilet seat, a seat with steps and yet all of these are fun to put on get on and get off and flush oh and waste lots of toilet paper but not do anything in toilet!

    CC are putting him on toilet as well regularly but nappy is always wet or dirty before hand so they feel he is just not psycologiclly ready yet! Has been slow with everything didnt walk til 21 months!! so not surprised.

    Just frustrating as getting so big to change nappies for!

    Good luck

  5. #5
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    Feb 2007
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    DD started using the potty just over a week ago. We bribed her with a toy and she went straight away and hasn't looked back lol! She did #2's on the potty no problems to begin with, but now she's getting all stressed every time she has to do one. She'll hold it in and get very agitated. We went out for the day on Sunday and she was so cranky by the end of the day because she wanted to poo, but wouldn't do it in someone else's toilet and she waited until we got home to go (not without much carrying on). So pretty much I have a cranky, tantying girl every time she has to poo. Not fun! The other downside is now she wakes at around 3am to use the potty even though she's wearing a nappy overnight. I guess it's kind of good, but I miss her sleeping through!

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    Apr 2008
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    My youngest is toilet training. He is petrified of the toilet as he struggles to balance comfortably but loves his potty. Daycare have asked us to take it in so he can use it there.

    He goes bare bum when we get home. In fact, he strips off as he walks in the door. The neighbours don't care if he runs around out the front with just a shirt on while daddy talks to everyone.

    Haven't had an accident when he is bare bum but have them every time with pull-ups. Might try him with jocks this weekend to see how he goes.

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    Apr 2010
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    I want to but ds2 seems to be completely uninterested. Anytime I mention the toilet he says no flat out. I think he is scared of it so I'm going to buy a potty and see if I have more luck. New territory for me as ds1 trained straight on the toilet.

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    Feb 2008
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    We have been in pull ups for a while and doing really well at nursery with dry pull ups 99% of the time. But she was completely disinterested at home, just relied on the pull ups. So we have gone into undies for the past 2 days and have had 1 accident each day and she is often telling me now when she needs a wee. Poos I have to watch for the tell tell signs and get her to the toilet. Tomorrow will be her first undies day at nursery so I have packed lots of changes of clothes!

    Janie x

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    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2009
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    Hello Cass! Good luck with your journey, and thanks for bringing it up, I'd love to share.

    I don't know if you'd call it toilet training, but we've introduced the potty into the bedtime routine the last few weeks. It's working fantastically at the moment - we give DS a shower or bath, then before we dress him we ask him if he can sit on the potty and do a poo or wee, turn on the nightgarden and give him a bottle of milk. He always tended to poo in his nappy around this time anyway, but since we've had him going on the potty they are MASSIVE poos. If I had to change a nappy with poo that big in it I think I would faint. He likes the idea of weeing in the potty but he mustn't be able to sense when one is coming yet, because he'll sit on the potty readily and stand up after a short while and point and say "wee!", but there's nothing there. And when I let him go nappy free with the potty nearby he always ends up weeing on the floor.

    I'm sure I need to take your approach of potty straight after waking up. Only trouble is I usually try to delay the inevitable when he wakes up at 5am in the morning by bringing him into bed with us.

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    Apr 2009
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    We are kind of. Pie has been in knickers since early December - she just decided on her own to start using the toilet - but lately there have been a few accidents which surprises me because there were none for so long. And it's not like she didn't get there in time - the other night she just stood up on the couch & peed all over it - and then did it twice the next day, as well!
    So, no idea what that's all about....

  11. #11
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    Jun 2009
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    Monday at childcare he managed to get 3 wees in the toilet (and about 6 misses). Yesterday he did the same. His carer told me this morning that yesterday he was outside playing when he came tearing inside saying “toilet” but only made it as far as the door before he had his accident. She said we are progressing so it’s all good – boys just take longer!

    This morning we had "success". A big wee when he got up (although his nappy was quite wet - obviously from during the night). He was skulking about looking like he needed to poo so DH took him (read dragged him) to the toilet. He had started to do a bit of a wee in his pants but did the rest plus a poo in the toilet. After that it was a half hour trip into work hoping that we would make it through security and into the childcare centre before he peed his pants and..... he sat on the big toilet and screwed up his face, did a fart then a bit of a wee and then said “book?!”. We didn’t have a book so he looked at my work diary (not very exciting!).

    Ah, made it to work without any accidents!!

  12. #12
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    Apr 2009
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    Yes TT here as well and I'm pretty much over it ... My ds 3 1/2 is practically trained except 5 mornings in a row he pulls his Willy out pees on the bed .... So both beds are stripped and have wee marks all over them ( he has a spare bed waiting for his little brother) . I so growled this morning as I know he is being plain defiant and apart from letting him sleep on a bare mattress I have no idea what to do.
    If he really did have a fall in accident wouldn't the pull up be drenched as well as the sheet etc ? Well his pullup is dry WTF ?

  13. #13
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    May 2008
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    Hi guys. How old are all your kiddies? My dd is 2 years 7 months. I feel like I need to get her out of nappies cause she seems so old. She will do a wee on the toilet if I ask her to and occasionally tells me she wants to do a poo, but most of the time does it in her nappy and tells me once it's over. Any tips suggestions? She goes to kindy 2 days a week when I work and the other days she goes to the child minding at the gym for one hour. Other than that she is home with me and her 9 month old sister.

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  14. #14
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    DD2 is toilet training but we are taking a relaxed approach, she's nappy free (undies are too big for her...lol) most of the day and will tell us if she needs to go to the toilet, if she wants a nappy on, I'll put one on her, not fussed, we've got plenty of time.

  15. #15
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    Jun 2009
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    my dd is almost 21 months, i only put nappy on her at bed time, but will get rid of it soon as she is waking up dry, she doesnt really have accidents during the day anymore, maye one if that, she is at kindy 2 days and im not impressed that sometimes there she will have 4, i get she is busy but even when we go out shopping she is in knickers and i take her to toilet, i told the kindy i think they rnt doin the job right shouldnt be that many,
    my first daughter now 8 was fully toilet trained night and day by age 2, we dont push either just let them go when they are ready and have always watched us go and we never used a potty just straight to big toilet,
    my little one is tiny t0 only about 78cm tall, so i help her on, hubby made a step that fit round toilet so its good size to help