She knows when shes doing wee's, she stops what shes doing and looks down. And poo's well lol you can hear her grunting away Then when she has done a poo she goes and gets her change mat and lies down on it for me to change her. She watch's me go to the toilet, and I have sat her on the toilet on her little seat, she doesnt get scared she just sits there and gets toilet paper and wipes her self and then puts the toilet paper in the toilet and does it again

I just dont know how to associate the 2....she isnt speaking yet, so she cant tell me that shes doing a wee, or that she needs too. She is starting to dress herself.

Thanks for the replies ladies its so hard to know what to do sometimes!!