Hmmm I have pondered the title of this thread for a while.....

DD has been in knickers since boxing day and is doing really well with TT during the day for wees - we've had two accidents so far - but we have also played it pretty low key and been home a lot to get used to it. Anyways, I'm really proud of her!

The thing is, when she goes to the loo, 9 times out of 10, she wees with such force that it shoots straight forward and hits the padded insert. I imagine if the insert wasn't there it may not reach as far as the adult seat, but she won't sit on it without it for fear of falling in. Our routine now is to 'scoot back' on the seat to leave as big a gap as possible, and I do try to get her to lean forward a little but she doesn't like to do that.

I do think she holds on quite a bit so it's quite a 'stream' when she does go, but she gets too upset if I get her to try too often. I thought this was a problem I'd have with a little boy not a girl - weeing all over the seat! I'm constantly cleaning up wee from all over the insert, toilet seat etc. I don't make a big deal of it to her because I don't want it to bother her. She did have a labial adhesion when she was around 3 months old (?) but it cleared up very quickly with a short dose of cream and has not been a problem since. I have started to wonder if that could have had an affect? Or am I just over thinking things?

I'm still really happy with how she's going, I just wondered if anyone else has come across this and if it will probably just settle down eventually.

We are also due back to CC in another week so it will be interesting to see if it happens in their child sized toilets. Thanks in advance for any feedback.