Fiona

We went through the exact same thing with my eldest DD. The problem is that if you dont give in then they hold on and unfortunately this caused major constipation problems with DD. DD would come and bring me the nappy, I would put in on and within a couple of minutes she would poo and then want it changed. It didnt last long though, only a couple of weeks and we pursued the no nappy at all routine. I think its the splash in the toilet that scares them. I hope that I have helped a little.