When DS1 is on the potty/toilet he gets 100% of one or both of our attention, we read stories, make up silly songs, if it would help, we'd have a special hats for potty/toilet time, or whatever ... and he gets stickers: one for a wee, another for a poo, and a third if the potty visit was his idea!

DS1 still isn't staying dry over naps, and has accidents, so we're deciding whether to persist or try pull-ups or training pants or something.

We'll all get there, no doubt!