You may not be able to hold her either, with dd the only contact she was supposed to have was cuddles with were dh and I, it's because they expend a lot of energy just surviving those first few weeks and can loose to much weight if held a lot, I didn't believe it until we let a few people sneak in cuddles and dd lost weight. Only a few people can go in at a time and it's best not to look at the other babies too much as it can upset the parents.