you are an awesome friend thinking of your friend like this. dont worry about clothes- they dont wear clothes until they hit an open cot anyway which could be like 6 weeks away. save the clothes for when bubs is at home
anything that will help take care of the mundane normal tasks at home would be good.
if you could gift her a service, then that may help- such as a cleaner, dog walker etc
otherwise- fuel voucher- driving back and forward to hossy everyday if its a distance gets $$$
a giftcard with some $$$ on it so if she wants snacks etc from the hossy she doesnt have to have money on her
a session with a LC for her to use whenever she is ready to help her when bubs is ready
a subscription to a magazine- so many lay hours just sitting
a gift subscription to her local breastfeeding assosiciation
even a delivery of some fruit or a fruit basket to home so they have something to eat at home
a journal to right things in- you forget so much when you are living through the experience!!!
hope these suggestions help and let us know how your friend goes!!