I had an Oioi which had lots of great accessories (mat, bottle holder, wipe holder etc) but I found the bag wasn't organised enough inside so I was just rooting around in a big mess for what I needed. Also it wasn't very pretty to look at and I was missing my handbags. So I got a Vanchi cosmopolitan online somewhere in a beautiful cream colour (I had to search high and low for the colour that I wanted). It looks like those expensive leather designer ones but is about $120 I think. I think they are an Australian company. I LOVE it, it has 6 internal pockets so I know where everything is and it looks like a nice handbag so I don't mind carrying it around. It doesn't have pram clips but the long strap slings over the pram and is fine (and probably less fiddly than the oioi clips) Also the accessories are really pretty fabric (but I still use the oioi ones too).

I wish I had done some research before I bought the oioi one (in a fit of hormonal "must have everything ready in case he comes early" lol) and found one that I actually liked in the first place. You use it a lot so you might as well find one that you like the look of- it is your new permanent accessory! (plus baby and baby vomit on the shoulder lol)

That is such a great idea to carry the "just in case" stuff in the car (extra clothes, washer etc), I just have everything in the one bag... now why didn't I think of that!