having done this 3 times now and this one being 5 years younger I practially started from scatch

Things you will realy need

1. place for bub to sleep cot/bassinett/hammick
2. car seat
3. pram
4. nappy bag
5. bouncer ( i love it)
6. singlets (about 5-7)
7. jumpsuits (at least 7)
8. cloth nappies 1 pack to start for spew etc
9. disposbale nappies (1 box of huggies newborn, bub might only fit for a few weeks if that) or cloth ones your choice
10. wipes

have a baby shower around 30 weeks or so gives you time to buy things you were not given. And don't get to much clothes you will be given heaps when bub is born i am sure.

hope this helps