Thanks everyone I think the Strider is the "sensible/practical" choice and BJ is the "I want it" choice

T, I wish the Select worked for us, it just doesn't sadly the front seat just won't recline enough in any position really and I spent a good hour at the baby shop having a play!

Y, I plan on a newborn carrier (maybe the Close?) and i have an Ergo, but it will be summer and I have chubba bubbas so not sure if I'd use it a lot iykwim.

Thanks, I'm pretty sure it will be the Strider but maybe i'll get the bj double too after ds2 gets bigger, thats dh's tip