I got mine off the website that Skybie told us about, saved $25 . I paid for mine with backpay from work (12 months without my pay increased ) so I figured I deserved a little treat especially since I didn't have to buy anything for this bubby.

You're going to be in the same place as me - having everything for a girl or boy. You could use the same excuse "that every baby needs a little something special bought for them"