Were there things you found useful with your second?

[Mad Scientist]

Definitely a playpen to keep your firstborn from getting into things while you are feeding, a bath seat for when bub no 2 is a little older, double pram is priceless but yes a light one for sure and DEFINITELY a baby bjorn type carrier or sling. I had both but found the sling much better. I could feed dd2 when she was reallllly tiny and I still use it now (she's nearly 1!) for trips To the shops. Dd1 goes in the trolley and dd2 goes in the sling on my hip. So quick and easy!

[Jewel]

A carrier, and one of those rockers that swings itself and plays music. It was a lifesaver somedays.

[alioops]

It was with #3 that I figured out what I needed.

What I wish I had for #1 and 2 and have for #3

Ergo
Capsule (travel system)
Rocking Chair
Cloth Nappies
A big car