I don't normally post in here but I have come across this and I have to say I think it is so wrong how this has all been handled.....I am at a loss as to why two of the most supportive and level headed mods have been singled out for attention in all this hoo haa..... who will look after the women experiencing loss now? I dunno...I am gobsmacked...it leaves a very nasty taste in my mouth. Anyways I would like to thank you both for all the hard work you have put into this forum, obviously for very little thanks it seems. I have always taken a lot away from your posts Deb and I hope that you won't just disappear although I can understand how you might not feel like coming back after being treatly so unjustly.