Parenting after Miscarriage or Loss ~ December 09

[Willow]

Just stalking for some Bun news...

Michelle - Of course you can be scared The sadness we've had in our little corner lately just reminds us all the more what a delicate process this is I have full confidence that your little one is tucked up nice and safe and tomorrow you will see for yourself You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to hear all about your wonderful scan

Anna - Kinda get what you mean and have moments when I feel the same. But your new adventure starts soon! Focus on that babe.

[mako]

Sorry girls but still no news from Bun.
Hopefully she's too pre-occupied gazing at her new bundle of joy to be worrying about texting

Michelle I'm sending you all the in the world hun. I too will be holding your hand tomorrow and look forward to hearing how well everything is with your bub.

BBL or 1st thing in the morning if I have some news for you all. Huge storm happening here and 1 very scared little boy

[JCE0810]

Michelle: you are allowed to be scared, we'll be holding your hand in spirit tomorrow goodluck with the appt.

I got excited when i seen that Mako has posted i thought ooooh Bun's had the baby and then read Mako's post only to realise there wasnt any news on Bun gosh i feel like a dill

[Lee]

It'll be okay girls - induction can take SO long, especially if Bun has been allowed to go into labour herself. But I feel for you Bun, as I think you have had a long day, and it so tiring. By 9pm I told my Ob I was going on the drip, he was happy to let me keep going, but I couldn't keep my eyes open. Hang in the Bun, I'm sure not long to go!!! Thinking of you and sending you good strong pushing vibes !!!

Michelle - you'll be right hon, looking forward to hearing good reports on your little bub tomorrow, hugs and strength xox

I'm hot footing it to bed to join my 6 week old spunk nugget

Lee xo

[mako]

Ok we have some news......Message received from Bun only minutes ago as follows....
"Healthy baby boy born after a very difficult labour but all is ok now! Will send more details tomorrow. No name as yet!"

Bun Congratulations hunny on the arrival of your baby boy. I'm so happy for you and DH and big sister C.
Welcome to the world little man

[JCE0810]

Woohoo!!! Congratulations

welcome to the world baby boy, enjoy your babymoon Bun, cant wait to hear more details

[Michelle71]

Bun - this is just the news I have been waiting to hear Congratulations!!! Looking forward to more details. Enjoy that very special blessing

[Freya]

Congrats Bun and welcome baby boy!!

[Inanna]

I have been waiting too.... Thank Goodness for your little boy! I am so happy he is in your arms. Enjoy him darling...

[LisaL]

Congratulations Bun, so glad all is well with the world and your little man is in your arms. Welcome little guy and hope he enjoys the special cuddles from his big sis! Bun, it feels like only yesterday you were wondering whether you would ever hold a bub in your arms, and look at you now, two special little people in your life, its just soooo amazing. Congratultions babe - enjoy!

Michelle - good luck hun for your scan, I know everything will be ok but thinking of you and holding your hand too.

Special hugs to all the other ladies, and i must say how amazing you all are, we have had heartache and joy all in a short space of time yet we can mourn with those who have lost and rejoice with those who have been blessed - you are an amazing bunch of women who make each and every one of us feel special when we need it most. Love you all and may each and every one of you be granted your hearts desire xx

[Willow]

Maaaaan, I was getting worried when I went to bed last night.

Congratulations Bun! I'm sorry you had a hard time of it, but soon it will be a distant memory and so worth it when you have your little boy in your arms

Can't wait to hear his name and details!

Lisa -

Michelle - thinking of you today but the weather is telling me your special little girl is here to let her mummy know all is ok.

[Michelle71]

Willow - thank you I may be flying solo for the scan but Caitlyn is with me today. It brings a kind of peace amongst the anxiety.

[BekZ]

Special hugs to all the other ladies, and i must say how amazing you all are, we have had heartache and joy all in a short space of time yet we can mourn with those who have lost and rejoice with those who have been blessed - you are an amazing bunch of women who make each and every one of us feel special when we need it most. Love you all and may each and every one of you be granted your hearts desire xx

Awe such beautiful words Lisa

Bun - It is so nice to wake up to this news. Congrates to you and your family.

Michelle - You've been in my thoughts all morning hun. We all be with you today.

Kelly - How you doing?

BBL off to swimming and then grocery shopping

[JCE0810]

Special hugs to all the other ladies, and i must say how amazing you all are, we have had heartache and joy all in a short space of time yet we can mourn with those who have lost and rejoice with those who have been blessed - you are an amazing bunch of women who make each and every one of us feel special when we need it most. Love you all and may each and every one of you be granted your hearts desire xx

well said Lisa, i dont know how i would have copped recently without you all

Michelle: goodluck today, we'll be thinking of you

Kelly: how are you hun?

[Freya]

Good luck today Michelle hun. If you see this before you go and feel like some support I can ditch the kids and come hold your hand if you need it

[Janie]

Ooooooh, well done Bun and congratulations!!!!!!!! So happy to hear that your boy has arrived safe and sound . Can't wait to hear his name, and all the other details!

Thinking of you today Michelle, will be holding your hand in spirit

Kelly, thinking of you still darl . I know this will be such a hard time for you, I'm glad you have your family around you. And I know it's not the same, but I'll be here for you when you get back to Melb

Quickly from me.......I got a bit worried this morning. I woke at 5am (care of DS ) but couldn't go back to sleep. Kept having these BHs that would last for aaaaages, every 5 minutes. So I got up and did some stuff, and they slowed down. DS called out at 6.30 so I jumped back into bed with him, and dozed off, but I kept having pains (like period pains) that would kind of wake me. But I was only half awake and then I would doze off again, but it kept happening. Now I just feel kind of sore, if that makes sense, like after the period pains die down. When I was bed I was thinking that I would ring my Ob for sure, but now I'm not so bothered. Should I be???? I'm seeing him tomorrow morning anyway, but maybe I should check with him today? Hmmmm, I know what I would say if it was someone else asking

[LisaL]

Janie - ring the OB woman, just to put your mind at ease. Ive been having a fair few BH's and last night i was keeled over on the couch with a stich like pain in the right side! OB assured me the other day its all going well, and its quite normal to have lots of BH's around this time. Unless they dont stop then Id be worried, but worth a call to your OB anyways. And its probably a rest thing too, bet that your not getting enough and running around after a tot sure doesnt help. Let us know how you go...

[butterfly_warrior]

Congratulations, Bun! Can't wait to find out what name you have chosen for your little man.

Michelle - thinking of you today.

BW