Oh Kelly...I'm so sorry :(
I'm glad you're with your family :hug:
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Oh Kelly...I'm so sorry :(
I'm glad you're with your family :hug:
Oh Kelly, I am so sorry sweety. I can imagine you must be hurt and very angry too, its hard not to be at times like this. I was quite depressed after I had my second loss and it took me ages to recover emotionally. So take time to heal your broken heart and spirit, and give your gorgeous DS extra special hugs, you will be sure to find some special comfort there. Thinking of you and your little angel xx
Hey guys :). I'm sure Kelly won't mind me asking if we've heard anything from Bun? I think Kelly knows how worried and upset I am (we all are!) for her. But it's Bun's big day, and I know I'm keen to hear how things are ASAP! Hint hint Mako, we want the goss immediately :lol: Thinking of you Bun, hope it's all progressing beautifully :). I hope you're already holding your bundle!
Thinking of you always Kel, you are on my mind all day today :hug: :hug: :hug:
Kel: Oh hun, I am so so very sorry. Please accept this cuddle from me :comfort: I am so sorry you are going through this pain and I am glad to hear that you have your wonderful family around you.
Bun: Thinking of you as you welcome your bub earthside. I can't wait to hear the news.
Spring xx
Kelly - words don't come easy when there are none that will ease your pain right now. Just know that all of us in here totally understand what you are going through and the heavy sad heart you are dealing with. So very sorry your bub did not stay. We are all here whenever you feel the need. Massive hugs xoxoxo
Lee xo
No news yet Janie..As soon as I get a text from Bun I'll let you all know ;)
Kelly I'm thinking of you hun and have been since yesterday. Give that gorgeous little biy of yours a huge hug. Sending you another though :hug:
Bun - thinking of you too!!!!! Induction can take a while, so I'm "trying" not to stalk - I remember y'all getting a bit twitchy when I was in having Flynn - that was such a LONG day, but what a prize I got at the end!! Hope things are going smoothly and naturally for you!!
Lee xo
I am so sorry Kelly so terribly sorry. :cry: I wish I had words to ease your pain darling. It is just so hideous that another beautiful woman has to say goodbye. I am so sorry. :comfort:
Thinking of you too Bun xxx
Kelly: thinking of you and sending you some more :hug: your way, please know we're here for you
Bun: hope all is going well with the induction, cant wait for Mako to let us know i'm trying not to stalk either
Oh guys.. thanks so much for all your lovely words and support. I would never have even been able to get this far without you all and can't ever thank you enough. We've just got home from hospital and I'm doing ok. I had the worst night ever... had a lot of pain and far too much blood for my liking.. it was horrible. I haven't had to experience the bleeding before and my god.. it just made everything even worse.. I can't even describe how I've been feeling.
Anyway, thankfully I'm with my family and they're amazing. Time to lie on the couch and let them look after me for once. DS has been sooo gorgeous too.. he knows somethings wrong and keeps asking me if I'm ok. I've never had so many kisses and cuddles from him!
Bun - I'm desperately waiting to hear your exiting news too... it's such a miracle when a gorgeous little bundle arrives into the world and I couldn't be happier for you today... it's certainly going to cheer me up.. so will make sure I pop back in to check soon!!
Thanks again to every single one of you.. you're absolutely amazing and I love you all dearly!
Kel xxx
Hi girls,
I was wondering if you or anyone you know has had two babies with incompetent cervix? And if so, what is the recommended wait time? I know I sound crazy but I just had my first baby (after two losses, 14w & 23w). I would love to go again within twelve months or so but fear its too soon. We lost two years trying for our first and my husband is getting older and I would love to have our second/last child sooner rather than later. However, not at the risk of hightening our chances of another loss...
With Jay (my little boy) I was hospitalised for 5 weeks and the membranes had bulged down to the stitch with 1cm closed below it. Was very lucky! Mind you, the stitch went in at 17 weeks and this time my ob will put it in at 13...
Guess I should ask him really hey? I just feel like an idion coz we only just had our little boy 3 monts ago :P
Anyhow, would love to hear form anyone who's been there.
Love Jos xxx
Oh Kelly, I was so sad for you & Ryann to hear this news this morning. If there is ANYTHING at all I can do, you just need to give me a call (I can literally help cos you're in WA! YAY!). So please, please, please, just give me a call, even if it's just to have a chat. I'm so sorry that this has happened, it must have been heartbreaking for you to go through this again, everything looked so good, I hate that it's ended badly. I'm so sorry again.
BUN _ YES! You need to fill us up with some very happy news. An arrival of a beautiful newborn would just be what we all need!
So gonna fill us in on your trip to China Jayne?? OR have you already and Im just a total nut brain and forgot. How exciting, will be an awesome experience for the girls.
Hope Bun is happily baby gazing!
Jos - I didnt have incompetent cervix as such but I had pre term labour complications and very early dialation with my second son, but went on to have zero issues with my third. From your history though Id say your chances of IC is higher but if you really want another baby and your OB is on board then I would discuss with him what plan of action you can put in place and then make your final decision! We've all here been faced with similar choices (relating to miscarriage) about whether or not to TTC again so we all know the feeling and hard choice to make :hug:
Speaking of TTC, my cluckiness has reared its head........Ive been super lucky to have had it last til now considering by the time both the older boys were 9mths I was 2nd trimester pregnant with the next one. Definately no babies in our future for atleast 18mths from now; maybe not ever if DH has his way. I just feel a bit lost right now, Ive practically always been the one pregnant or with a newborn..............its like Ive lost my identity :lol:
Oh and its cool to open up the local newspaper and see a familiar face Michelle ;)
Hi Jos - welcome to this little corner of insanity. I have no experience with cervix incompetence and waiting times between pregnancies. Hopefully someone will be able to give you some more information.
Kel - :comfort: You know we are here for you xx Take care and let yourself be cared for.
Bun - waiting (kind of ;)) patiently.
Can I be scared :( I hate scans and mine is tomorrow. I am trying to think positively but it is so hard. It is cloudy (which is nice) and I am going to light my candles but it is making my head hurt ........
ETA - Oh God Anna!! Is it :redface: That was done before Christmas. Maybe I need to get a copy of the local paper when I go to work?!?
You can be scared darling. :comfort: But you will get through this - just like all the others. My candle will be lit for you. My hand will be holding yours & prayers and positivity sent out to the Universe.
This has been a hard time for those that have said goodbye lately - & also for those that are still pregnant. Just know your story is yours & it's different. We are all praying, yodelling, visualising a beautiful heartbeat and great measurements. Big cuddles darling... :hug:
Thanks Deb - I am sitting here sobbing and dripping on the computer :( You always know what I need :hug: I feel guilty (I know I shouldn't but why do I deserve this??? they do too!!!!) and sad and excited all rolled into one. It is just the usual rollercoaster but the ride never seems to get any easier.
If anything I think it gets harder. As if we have only so much good luck & then whammo. Of course it doesn't work like that. But it's hard to remember that when the anxiety levels are so hard.
What time tomorrow is your appt? As you all know I have no iphone (Miss Immy has a mean pitch) & all my numbers are on my computer & so they don't come up on my phone... (I have a crappy little Nokia from the bottom drawer and I can't send texts on it with any type of speed... :redface:)
But if you feel inspired to - I would love to hear from you when you get through your u/s... :hug:
Michelle; I am not far away either if for any reason you feel like company! Is Dh going in with you? I can remember very well feeling sick to my stomach everytime I had to have an ultrasound. Even when I knew the likelihood was good that everything would be fine. The fear never ever leaves you after a loss. I will be thinking of you tomorrow but I am going to be positive and say bub will be happily chugging around in there.............hopefully it might be a flasher too so we can take bets on what s/he might be! :hug:
If you cant get your hands on a paper Ive still got mine! Ryan read it too and gave me a 1/2hr speech about how they can fix the problem (I think it involved leaving them wait on a stupidity time out but I explained that while its a novel idea nurses have a duty of care that doesnt have a numpty exception lol) I dont know how you work ED and stay sane, from what Ive seen while I was there (prob on slow days!) Id be in need of a padded cell in no time. No wonder your SuperNurse :)