Thanks Sherie: I Really appreciate it...knowing you have "been there done that" and survivied gives me a lot of hope!!

I kind of know it will all work out eventually......I just need to get through the next few months!

In terms of meal times, I am so scared of turning into my Mother.....(long story) in relation to food....I have tended to be really lenient and relaxed over mealtimes, and it has worked till now, and I try SO hard to not make mealtimes a battle. The reward chart thing......I have it all lined up ready to go....

It doesn't help that Andrew let Olivia have laods of treats and snacks whilst I was in hospital.......there are a lot left in the pantry.....I may just chuck them out, so neither of us can "give in" to her and give her junk, that way hopefully she wil get back on track with proper meals.....