Nah. I don't use the term "Tom boy" and I don't assign toys or activities as being the sole domain of a particular gender. It reinforces stereotypes and is used to control.

I can still remember the uproar when my mum bought one of my brothers a Baby Alive when he was a toddler in the late 70s.

I think kids (and adults) should be able to enjoy a wide range of toys and activities without being labelled as unusual and as someone who has gone outside their expected gender role.
This exactly. I was going to say the same but N2L you said it more eloquently than i could have. And same goes for DS. He's even been known to paint his nails from time to time I think when we are still using terms like tomboy there is still gender equality issues because the opposite for a boy who plays with "girls toys" is seen as a derogatory.