Respect is something we all want to be shown but its a tricky thing.
In my day it was a respect your elders! but as I grew up I felt it should be earnt not freely given. Now I feel its a bit of both. A general level of politeness and respect is deserved by most as we have all had a hard road.
The problem is how to win our kids respect. We can teach them not to shout at us but that's just manners.
My question is, how do you/ did you win your child's respect

unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, noth
ing is going to get better. its not.
Dr Seuss