I feel like the worst mother ever. DD1 was only 15months old when DD2 was born and since then I forgot how little she was and treated her like she was older and expected her to behaviour a lot older. It has led to both of us being very frustrated and feeling distant. A few of days ago I read a thing a woman wrote about her sister spending all her time with her baby and being angry at her older child all the time, and pretty much told people to aware of this. Since then with everything I think, what would is do if she was the youngest or she is only a baby. I have been treated her like the baby, how I should have been treating her all along. I feel like is have gotten my daughter back, her behaviour has improved and she is back to being mummys girl and I am just loving her wanting and needing mummy. I feel dreadful thinking about the last 5 months and just want to cry .