DS2 is 6 months old had a minor procedure under a GA yesterday afternoon at 4pm. He has been febrile since 10.30pm and I'm having to give him panadol 4 hourly and Nurofen 8 hourly to keep his discomfort and temperature under control. He hasn't slept properly since waking up from GA just been snacking & napping.
A few months ago we planned in advance to take the kids to the snow with DH's best mate/partner/DD. I do not want to take DS2. I don't think it's fair to him to take him to the snow, travel 2 1/2hrs to get there and then stay at friends house tomorrow night with everything his little body is obviously going through at the moment. I suggested DH take DD & DS1 while I stay at home with DS2 because DH thinks it would be very bad form to cancel the trip all together. Of course I would much prefer to go and be there when my kids see snow for the first time but I just can't bring myself to put DS2 through it when he is not going to get a single thing positive out of the experience especially considering the warmest (if you can use that word, LOL) it is going to be tomorrow is -4 degrees.
Am I being unreasonable?? Honest replies please - I promise not to get narky