I think it depends on the situation, your right I should have said as soon as we finish sure, I guess I was stunned, but like you guys say she may have been in desperate need. Her child wouldnt have fit in it anyway which baffles me. We didnt have a pram with us and Tara is not good sitting on the chair alone and even with the little booster seat we had it wouldnt have been high enough, which would have caused her to be unhappy anyway which is why I said no.

I take it as my responsibility to make sure my child is distracted when upset or even take them out for some air to cheer them up. I hope she had an ok time though after we left and all was ok.