My just turned 5 year old boy has been caught numerous times now either pulling girls dresses up, or pulling their pants down. I am at my wits end! The first time it happened we didn't make a big deal of it, just explained that it wasn't a good thing to do etc, the second time I again pulled him aside and explained why he shouldn't do it, but since then he has again encouraged a friend to take her knickers off, pulled down a 7 year old friends bathers and a pulled up my friends 10 year old daughters dress. Tonight I lost it at him, I had already spoken to him today about how it was not on and that next time I would be really angry. The best thing is he won't even take his shirt off unless we go in the bedroom and lock the door...he is that private. I don't know what else to do. I even threatened tonight that if he does it again I will pull his pants down and make him stand in front of the girls he had done it too. I know it sounds horrible and I don't like the thought of humiliating him, but what else can I do? I also told him tonight, that he is no longer allowed to play with the girls without mum or dad there. any advice please!!!!