The first one: Never thought I'd have children. XH insisted we do it early before he got too old (he was 10 years older than I).

I thought I'd breastfeed for a while. Then realised that I couldn't do it.

Thought I'd stay at home for a year. Managed three weeks.

Never thought I'd be raising children with psychological issues. Married a violent farckwit whose behaviour has caused many problems for the children.

Shall I continue?