So our ds2 is three weeks old and things are going ok. Cluster feedin in the mornings but seems to be settling in well.

One thing that I'm struggling with ( and could be because of the cluster feeding mornings and me worried ds2 won't get enough sleep) is how u handle toddler behaviour with a newborn. In particular the excited yelling and loud tantrums? I don't want to give into things but when I'm worried about him waking his brother I just do anything so he is quiet again.

How do I just get over it and if ds2 wakes he wakes? Cuz I'm just worried about how to resettle a Bub with a toddler as well.

No idea if this makes any sense as I'm typing on iPhone and feeding ds2...