ds is usually out by 8.30 due to meds his on that help him relax to sleep if not he ist sleeping till around 1am his too fidgetty n is mind goes into over drive but he gets up around 7 am
and dd even though she is only 6 weeks she is in bed from 8.30-9pm n sleeps through till bout 4am or even 6 am then back to sleep till 8am
so its very good i think u just have to work with what u have at the moment n let that become a routine before u try to adjust it otherwise they dont adapt to it right n then u go back to being all ova the place iykwim??