I am organising food for a wake for my grandfather for saturday.

It could be around 200 people, so we don't want everyone back at our house. We are doing it at the funeral so I am trying to keep it basic.

A friend is setting up the tables, coffee, tea etc but my brain isn't functioning for food.

I am thinking italian cakes and some pizzas which I can get others to pick up for us. Then I have a few bringing some cakes/biscuits etc.

What else can we organise or provide? Heating space is limited.

I was thinking some banana cakes, apricot balls?.....ah brain dead.

Athen, after we will have about 20 back here, mainly close family. I was thinking BBQ and what else? What do I ask people to bring? Tbh I don't feel like having anyone but In our culture people will come..