Need everyone in this forums help!!!!

[Mummy2Lilly]

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Hi there,

Sorry to ask this stupid question but i just need to know where to go about all of this!

As you all know i was rehoming one of my little boys ( DOGS) Which was the chihuahua.. And ever since he has gone to his new home our Border collie hasnt been eating and drinking or going to the toilet and screaming all the time. So We have taken him to 3 different vets to see if we can get anti-depressents for him. But they wont give them to him as the dog that we gave away hasnt died and they are saying we should get the other dog back because it is the only way he is going to calm down ( Mind you 3 different vets has all said the same thing.)
So now we are stuck as in what to do. We was thinking about getting him another play buddy but then we thought we dont want to go through all the training etc again. So i contacted the vets about that saying we dont want to do all the training again etc and they all turned around and said your going to have to get your other dog back then. So now df is wanting to get back the other dog also as he is starting to miss him like crazy. But im not sure if we are able to get him back. the lady we gave him to emails us daily to let us know how he is going and that he is still missing us etc.
Is there such a thing as cooling dow period for animals etc are we able to get him back.. What sort of process do we need to do. My partner said to me that he would pay good dollars to get our boys back together and also get this another lady a dog. She only wanted our little man to keep her dog happy of a day..

Im really confussed at what to do.


Whats your best advice? We didnt know our dog was going to be like this otherwise we would have never thought about letting him go..

This is the reason we wanted to rehome him.We rehomed him as we spend over 1252.00 on training for him alone as once i became pregnant again he was starting trouble with partner by trying to attack him wouldnt let him near me and was going to the toilet inside and wouldnt go out.etc plus we are soon to be moving and he the landlord said we can only keep one dog if we want the property ( Df's Family the property is owned by) So we thought it would be best for both him and my family for him to be rehomed. But a week before he was to be rehomed he started to calm down quite a fair bit and we wasnt going to let him go but this lady was already lined up to take him and we felt bad about not letting her have him so we just let her take him.. Biggest mistake ever and i will never do it again... So we have turned down this property that my df's family was going to give us just so we can get him back aswel as wanting to put him in for more training etc.. You dont know how bad i feel about doing all this.. but at the time i thought it felt right but wasnt i wrong . In our life we all make mistakes and this is one i have made this is wrong. So im just trying to fix it for the sake of my other dog.. Its really heart breaking to see his food bowl still full from breakfast and dinner as it hasnt been touched since our chihuahua has gone. Also we havent had any sleep in a week since he has gone because our dog has been screaming all night and day for him to come back




Also if you was in this situition what would you tell the lady? And if you was to write her an email how would you explain it all to her? We are willing to buy her another dog and give her extra money on top of that.


Im happy to answer any questions aswel.
thanks