Hello girls Just have a few q's about the Pill (and other contraceptions) and am looking for some advice or personal experience.

Background: After DD1 was born, I went on Trifeme/Triphasil for nearly a year (stopped taking it just after DD1's first birthday to TTC, got pg first cycle with DD2. All good). Never had any issues - took it at 8am every day, never had to skip a cycle, never experienced a breakthrough bleed or even a stray spot - AF was always on time right down to the hour, never had any pregnancy scares or bad side-effects or anything that gave me cause for concern. As I said, stopped taking it only because we were TTCing and had no issues with conception.

Since DD2 was born, DH and I have been using condoms - first because I was BFing and didn't want to muck up my supply, then I was reluctant to go back on it until after my tummy tuck as, while on Trifeme, I didn't gain any noticeable weight but shifting it was impossible. I still had quite a bit of baby weight from DD1 the first time around and never got rid of it, but after having DD2 I dropped back to pre-DD1 weight + 5kgs (which I'm okay with). So I waited until after my surgery to ensure I was at my 'goal weight' before going on the Pill, knowing it would be hard to shift any extra while on it.


Anyway, I've been on Trifeme for over 3 months now, and it's been giving me issues. Nothing hugely important, but I had a pg scare a few weeks back (posted a thread about it and then lost it so couldn't reply with an update - tests were neg, thank goodness!), with stray mid-cycle spotting. I've had issues with taking it at the right times - my routine is different to when I was a mum of one and I often sleep in late and have to play catch-up (which DH is getting really annoyed with, he hates condoms and hates that I'm not consistent enough). I took one two hours late last week, and was almost due for AF, but according to the instructions if you take it late, you have to keep going for 7 days, skipping the red pills if necessary - so I am. But for three days (since red pills were due to start), I've had *TMI WARNING* lovely black/brown, sludgy discharge (like the end of AF), clots and nasty cramping in my lower abdomen.
Oh, and there was that pg test a few days ago that came up +ve, then subsequent ones (over the space of a few days, most recent one was today) all came up -ve.

Don't know what's going on, but I'm wondering if it's time to change Pills? Perhaps this one just isn't agreeing with me any more? In the past it was easy to tell - pain, skin rash and stupid fast weight gain, I could tell within a month whether a brand was working for me or not... now I don't know, I have no side effects other than weird bleeding and some awful cramping over the past day. No red blood, nothing 'fresh' looking, just gross blackish-brown clotted sludge. It's awesome :/

Does anyone have any idea what's going on, and whether a change in Pill would sort this out? Should I just start looking into other options (Mirena etc?) TIA! x